Why are we all congratulating Ryanlanane ?

[sarettah]

I thought we were the "No Spin" board.

I thought, when someone fucks up, we called them on it.

What is all this wishy washy congratulations on the engagement stuff ? (and yes, I know, I participated too)

Fact is, a man getting engaged is one step from the end of life for him.

Engagement leads to marriage. Once you're married, there is no more sex, there is no more sharing, there is no more partnership.

From the moment of "I do" life for a man turns from a free wheeling fun time thing to a perpetual slave to a woman's (often unrational) whims.

So, how come we are holding back and not telling him the truth ??

Huh ??
Huh ??
Huh ??

[Trev]

You've got a valid point. No one told me that when Toni said "I do", she meant "I do - everything I want and nothing you want"

[LadyMischief]

I think you must have married the wrong person, then, Sarettah... My husband and I have more sex now after 7 years of marriage than most people still dating. And consistantly, at least twice a day, generally. Marriage isn't the end, marrying someone who's not compatible with your interests/needs is:P

[sarettah]

Originally Posted by LadyMischief

I think you must have married the wrong person, then, Sarettah... My husband and I have more sex now after 7 years of marriage than most people still dating. And consistantly, at least twice a day, generally. Marriage isn't the end, marrying someone who's not compatible with your interests/needs is:P

From the women's point of view, that is probably all true...

From the man's point of view...

"Twice a day this woman makes me perform to her expectations. When do they stop using us, when I ask you, when ?"

[Red]

Originally Posted by sarettah

"Twice a day this woman makes me perform to her expectations. When do they stop using us, when I ask you, when ?"

until we use you up.

[Dravyk]

Originally Posted by Red

until we use you up.

All we are is dust in the wind .....

[LadyMischief]

Originally Posted by sarettah

From the women's point of view, that is probably all true...

From the man's point of view...

"Twice a day this woman makes me perform to her expectations. When do they stop using us, when I ask you, when ?"

And yet, if they aren't getting it, men bitch twice as hard. I'd just think you males should be lucky murder isn't legal :P

[RyanLanane]

Originally Posted by sarettah

I thought we were the "No Spin" board.

I thought, when someone fucks up, we called them on it.

What is all this wishy washy congratulations on the engagement stuff ? (and yes, I know, I participated too)

Fact is, a man getting engaged is one step from the end of life for him.

Engagement leads to marriage. Once you're married, there is no more sex, there is no more sharing, there is no more partnership.

From the moment of "I do" life for a man turns from a free wheeling fun time thing to a perpetual slave to a woman's (often unrational) whims.

So, how come we are holding back and not telling him the truth ??

Huh ??
Huh ??
Huh ??

LOL - I already know the truth...

I envy the twice a day after 7 years of marriage!!! Hell twice a week would keep me happy nowadays, and that's sad.. very sad... I used to be 4-5 X a day with her... Having a kid changes things though, you are both so damn drained... She's starting to get older so it's getting a bit easier but DAMN if she doesn't DEFINE the "Terrible Twos" so no relaxation yet

[Inabon]

Originally Posted by RyanLanane

LOL - I already know the truth...

I envy the twice a day after 7 years of marriage!!! Hell twice a week would keep me happy nowadays, and that's sad.. very sad... I used to be 4-5 X a day with her... Having a kid changes things though, you are both so damn drained... She's starting to get older so it's getting a bit easier but DAMN if she doesn't DEFINE the "Terrible Twos" so no relaxation yet

well i am finishing a nine month no sex period and now that there will be no more kids i plan to have a lot of it

going on my 10 th year of marrige next year.

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Dravyk

All we are is dust in the wind .....

Sarettah is occasionally dust in the sinuses.

Inabon, congratulations on the "Ten Year Mark."

[LadyMischief]

Originally Posted by RyanLanane

LOL - I already know the truth...

I envy the twice a day after 7 years of marriage!!! Hell twice a week would keep me happy nowadays, and that's sad.. very sad... I used to be 4-5 X a day with her... Having a kid changes things though, you are both so damn drained... She's starting to get older so it's getting a bit easier but DAMN if she doesn't DEFINE the "Terrible Twos" so no relaxation yet

Well we have three kids, ages 7, 5 and 20 months, and believe me sometimes it's hard to make time... but it's well worth it.. You just have to find your groove.

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