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Old 05-02-2005   #51
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You've been with this girl a month and the honeymoon's over already because of her drug use?

If you don't get rid of her, then you're the one that needs a 12 step program.
No Kimmy, not a month, almost 4, which in many cases is more than enough to make judgements.

I'm just a little worried if I am wasting time or should be patient.
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It will end in tears.

Get out now while you can.
hahaha, that is my life ... 200% for everything and feel the pain later.
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Looks like I have to get a couple new sneakers























... but I probably won't, I'm an idiot when it comes to relationships. I always stay till they start fucking with me.
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Too much honesty in this thread from me though, damn.
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Lots of good advice here naughty. I know it's tough to do but you would be wise to listen. The bottom line is that until she hits bottom you are in for a lot of painful moments AND there is no guarantee that she will ever truly "hit bottom" to the point where she tries to take control of her life.
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I always stay till they start fucking with me.
Sounds like it's past that
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Most of the posters in this thread have revealed waaaay more in their time. No shame in it.

Good luck with whichever way you decide.

Our answers were truthful.

To have lied to you would have been disrectful to you.
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Unless its a matching set of either:

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outside of high school, where do you find them?
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i'm guessing she has a nice trim figure right?
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I've ben with this girl for a couple months now, although i'm very much in love
You fell in "love" with a cokehead after a couple months...

I really don't even need to say anything else.
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Threesomes can be fun, but not with that bitch. Coke is the bitch I am referring to, and as long as she's in the picture she will steal her away every time.

Simply asking the question that you did makes you a prime candidate for the codependency support group of your choice. If this is not the first time you've found yourself in this prediciment, you might want to consider giving such a group a try whether you tell her to hit the road or not.

If you've got reasons to stay invested in the relationship, and she's willing to quit (alone or with help) - maybe it is worth trying, although you have no idea what the hell she's like if she's been coked up for four months.

You have to have the balls to say "Coke or me" and mean it, or you continue to bang your head on that brick wall.
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No Kimmy, not a month, almost 4, which in many cases is more than enough to make judgements.

I'm just a little worried if I am wasting time or should be patient.
If you say that 4 months is time enough for judgements but you're still wondering whether you're making a mistake or not, then you probably are making a mistake.

Actually I'd say you're definitely choosing heartache and pain over a satisfying relationship no matter how you look at it.

Give her the ultimatum, you or the dope, see what she says and then watch what she does.

That should give you your answer.
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I would have stayed with a girl with nasty coke habit and eventually would turn into a coke head myself. Than I would dump her and live together with heroin addict. After a while, this would bore me too, and I'd end up with the girl who likes mixing laxatives with sleeping pills. Never ending excitement and gentle on one's waller.
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On a lighter note ive never done Coke but im addicted to Sprite Zero, does that count?

In all seriousness though, i havent 'done' anything harder than a joint in my life 'cept for one tim when i had a bad E trip while on a night out with the lads and even that wasnt deliberate, one of the cunts dropped it in my drink, something to be said about friends like those but i dont quite remember it
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I actually spoke with her yesterday for a long time and she really wants to quit doing coke, except every now and then when she's with me at a party or something like that (I think that is okay too by the way, as long as it is with me present and not large quantities). I think she just likes it a little too much. She did agree that it was time to loose the 'idiots' I referred to earlier, time will tell if she will actually manage to do so.

I did tell her that it would be silly to explain to people (among which are her parents) that I left her because I didn't like her doing coke. It was pretty much an eye opener for her as well.

Thanks for all the advise. I have to add though that she is not using drugs every day, but a couple times a week and not always lots of it. To me, that is more than I bargained for, hence my question on the board.
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I would have stayed with a girl with nasty coke habit and eventually would turn into a coke head myself. Than I would dump her and live together with heroin addict. After a while, this would bore me too, and I'd end up with the girl who likes mixing laxatives with sleeping pills. Never ending excitement and gentle on one's waller.
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Really if she's saying she still wants to do it occasionally she's not ready to stop yet
Guess you have to decide what you can accept and live with
You never know when or if that occasionally will lead to a full blown binge

Sorry I don't have more positive things to say but maybe in a past life I walked that line and have seen others do it as well
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All great advise!

I just walked away from a 1.5 year relationship. He was a pill adict..about 30-50 percs a day! Could not keep a job. Bled me dry emotionally and probably cost me about 30k.

He has been in rehab twice and he just cant stay off it. I had to walk away or he was just going to bring me down. No amount of Love is going to kick the habit for him. I do hope he gets help before he dies but I can not help him he can only help himself. Same with your girl!!!

Preach Tough Love!! Walk away and never look back!! if she can kick the habit and you were meant to be she will find her way back to you!
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About 30-50 percs a day!
Does he have a liver left?

Truthfully you don't feel much more after 2-3 (except for not getting dope sick).
Many dopers just move on to Heroin at that point
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