She asks U to stop after starting. U don't. Rape?

[gigi]

Originally posted by Hooper@Jul 30 2003, 01:51 PM

I think you need to be careful about how you refer to that situation. The law does not say anything about "once things get hot"... we're not talking about when you end up naked and then go.."gosh i better get going"... we're talking about a woman knowingly and purposely going upstairs at 1am, knowingly and purposefully having sex with a man, and then during the actual act of intercourse changing her mind.

Not sure how i feel about this, I dont know that it should be called "rape" because rape indicates forced non-concensual sex while the above situation was never forced or non-consensual.

If she agrees at first, and then backs down, that is her perogative.

I have a hard time swallowing the idea that once she agrees it is carved in stone and that she is bound to complete the activity...even if it turns sour for her.

I don't believe the current laws state that once she agrees, she must follow through with it. I also don't believe there is any set time limit on how long she has to pull out of the arrangement.

Like Mike says.....no is no.....no matter when it is said.

This new proposal only clarifies that as soon as 'no' is said, the activity is forfeit.

There have been, and always will be women who use the system for revenge or what have you. I hate these women because it makes it so much harder for the legitimate cases to be won. These women are also the ones that create indecisiveness in legitimate rape victims who are afraid to prosecute for fear of being labelled a liar.

I dont know that it should be called "rape" because rape indicates forced non-concensual sex while the above situation was never forced or non-consensual.

It became forced and non-consensual the minute she changed her mind and voiced her desire.

So, a guy and some hot chick start getting it on...the are butt ass naked and heavy into the petting. She stops and says no. He continues and finishes the job anyway despite her insistance to stop.

If you wouldn't call it rape.....what would you call it then?



Last edited by gigi at Jul 30 2003, 04:19 PM