Would you advise your daughter against porn?

[Almighty Colin]

Would you advise your 18 year old daughter against getting into porn as content?

[Opti]

definitely, positively, hypocritically or not.. I would and do.

[Almighty Colin]

I don't think it's hypocritical.

[shawcutie]

"Would you advise your 18 year old daughter against getting into porn as content?"

Do you honestly know of anyone that does advise their daughter too???

[Raven]

If I had an 18 year old daughter and she were as headstrong as I am, I doubt if I'd be able to talk her out of anything she wanted to pursue.

That said, I believe that knowledge is power, so I would sit her down and explain how this biz works...the advantages and pitfalls.

My son has toyed with the idea of becoming a stunt cock; and, while I'm not thrilled with this choice of career, I would not stop him....I wouldn't be able to stop him, I don't think...if he were serious about this.

[spanno]

if I had an 18 year old daughter that'd make me a father at 8 years old )

I'd tell her, "bitch you should have been pregnant at 10 like you mother!
get out in the world and whore yourself cos I'm sick of paying for you!"

[Mike AI]

"Would you advise your 18 year old daughter against getting into porn as content?"

I would advice against it. Not because I think porn, or nudity is wrong. 95% of the girls I have worked with in content are lost souls, many are irreseponsible, drug use is rampent. Instead of using adult industry as a way to make some good money, and save this for the future, the girls blow their money up their nose, or give it all to a suitcase pimp.

I have known a handful of girls who have been responsible, made ncie money, saved, invested it and will be financially seucre for the rest of their life.

I knew a girl at 21 who owned a nice house ( no mortgage), probably had 250k+ in the bank, and was driving a new escalade. Her goals was to be retired by 25, with 500k+ in the bank. She was then going to go to college, and live a normal life.

This is what is possible, but 99% of the time , it does not happen.

For every Jenna Jamison there are thousands of girls who get chewed up by the industry.

[SykkBoy]

Absolutely not.
Most girls who become content have serious daddy issues. Do I have a problem making money from that? No. Being a hypocrite myself, do I want others making money from my daughter? No. I know most here will vehemently deny it but, this industry does NOT look at girls as content in the same light as girls who work behind the scenes. No matter how successful Jenna Jameson becomes, she will never get the same respect as some wanking fatfuck working out of his mother's basement charging people to see dirty pictures.

Would I encourage my daughter to work in the adult business behind the scenes? If it's what she wanted, yes.

Would she probably rebel against me and do it anyways? Probably, but as liberal as a dad as I am, it'll probably be pretty hard to rebel against me, but there's my one spot of rebellion that would crush me. That and if she went to work for the IRS. I used to fear my children would rebel against me by becoming FBI agents, until I found out an old high school friend of mine now has cushy job with the FBI. He was a total lunatic in school and will make a great agent of Satan...er, I mean the Bureau ;-)
hmmm, he owes me a few favors for helping him pass a couple math classes...maybe I should go collect on the favor...FEAR ME! LOL



Last edited by SykkBoy at Jul 6 2003, 12:35 PM

[Opti]

Originally posted by Raven@Jul 7 2003, 02:06 AM
If I had an 18 year old daughter and she were as headstrong as I am, I doubt if I'd be able to talk her out of anything she wanted to pursue.

That said, I believe that knowledge is power, so I would sit her down and explain how this biz works...the advantages and pitfalls.

I do have a headstrong and very pretty 18 year old daughter

It sounds like you have met her.. I just thank my lucky stars she usually makes good decisions.

I don't think it's hypocritical.

I dunno Colin, maybe it's just me personally that is being hypocritical. I do think that the vast majority of models are happy but I also feel like there is a degree of exploitation that we profit from. I am probably a hypocrite as I'm happy to profit from the "content" if it's some anonymous person that may or may not be fully aware of the ramifications of their "choice" but I would be very unhappy if that content was family. I would be immediately thinking they had been "tricked" or seduced into it or driven to it by desperation.. it wouldn't feel like the model was really making an informed choice if it were my 18 year old daughter.

If she chose to do it as a mature adult I may feel differently.. so maybe I am just suffering from parental tunnel vision.

I really have found it much much harder to be objective about this type of question now I actually have an 18 year old. And I have found myself thinking about it more often too.. had this same discussion with a recent penthouse pet on Friday night actually!

[Peaches]

I voted to advise her against it, but I will add that I'm glad I DON'T have a daughter (and I'm too old to have one now ).

I agree with what Michael said about the problems these girls have. I had a friend that was a bouncer at one of the big strip clubs here. After about a week he said "I don't know if they're screwed up because they take their clothes off in front of strangers, or if they take their clothes off in front of strangers because they're screwed up." Very few dancer, porn stars, nude models seem to have a good head on their shoulders. Even the ones that SEEM to, once you start peeling the layers off, so to speak, they all tend to have issues.

And while I'd never want my son to be a stunt cock (c'mon - I don't even want to think that he HAS a cock, OK??!), the men in porn, while seemingly paid less, also are the dominating ones in most scenes.

To me, being "behind the scenes" you treat it as a business and it's really no different from any other business.

Yes, I realize it's hypocritical for me to say I want to make money off females where a high percentage of them have at least some self esteem/possible mental problem, but I don't want MY daughter in it, but tough.

Edited to make it look like I know English.



Last edited by Peaches at Jul 6 2003, 02:07 PM

[linkyd]

I agree with Mike AI. If the decision to go into porn was to use it as a quick and calculated launch pad to a well planned and organized life, then maybe... But the reality is far from this.

[Hell Puppy]

Very few 18 year olds, male or female, have enough life experience to make good decisions. And having nude pics of yourself published, or worse yet doing hardcore, is baggage you're going to carry with you the rest of your life.

[Timon]

It's not hypcritical at all not to want your daughter to work in porn.

If you would own a McDonalds, would you want your daughter to have a career in flipping burgers? Probably not because it would be a very bad career move.

So if you wouldn't want your daughter flipping burgers, would you be a hypocrite because you allow others to flip burgers?

[cj]

Originally posted by Colin@Jul 6 2003, 10:40 AM
I don't think it's hypocritical.

then how do you define hypocrisy Colin?

we sort through 1000's of photosets, looking for the youngest, most innocent looking girls to put on our sites and accompany it with text that says 'Show Daddy's little girl how to suck cock' and yet you wouldn't consider it hypocritical to not want your own daughter doing this?

I disgust myself sometimes when I do the above, and then think about the 18 year old girls that I know and how I would feel if i were writing that text about them ... what we consider to be just a job is the turning point in the lives of lots of sweet young girls with stars in their eyes - and its us who send them on a downward spiral. I've had a hawk eye on my sister for the last few years, especially when she was living in canada near a certain company that specializes in vegetables.

Naive Girl applies for an ad in the paper saying 'nude models wanted' and next thing she knows she's fucking some dirty old purvert who is in this biz just to get his dick sucked by chicks who are too eager for money to say no. sound familiar?

then there's the other side of it ... the types of girls who go into the porn industry are usually searching for something, lonely, into drugs, want fast cash, impressed by expensive things, like the idea of doing something bad etc.

if sex weren't considered such a dirty thing and if our industry wasn't driven so far underground, perhaps there would be less screw-ups involved in the biz, and more girls who understand how it can benefit their future. If the industry were policed by something other than wannabe pimps it might not be so bad.

I would love to get into content production one day ... i'd like to show girls that they can make money from positive sex without being mind fucked and treated like a piece of meat and doing things they don't want to do.

IMHO there is nothing wrong with a girl being sexually confident, aware of her body and knowing she's sexy ... I would never deny that of anyone, friend, relative or stranger - its this industry that takes a natural concept and turns it into filthy, almost criminal activity.

[Timon]

Originally posted by cj@Jul 6 2003, 10:42 PM
we sort through 1000's of photosets, looking for the youngest, most innocent looking girls to put on our sites and accompany it with text that says 'Show Daddy's little girl how to suck cock'

I would NEVER do something like that and you know it cj ;-)

[BradShaw]

I would break both her legs if she even mentioned it. Leave making porn to crack whores and people with troubled pasts.

[Timon]

cj, I saw this bright yellow site once called "Teen-E-Zine"

I am not easily shocked but the person who designed that site really is a disgusting women degrading perv ;-)))

[cj]

Originally posted by Timon+Jul 6 2003, 10:57 PM-->