LeeNoga Falls In Love

LeeNoga · 01-21-2004

NOT that you missed me, and Nope I did not do the Vegas show but as miraculous as it sounds I am in love with the most spectacular woman I will refer to as "JJ".....to think I spent 16 years in a loveless marriage which I ended in 2001.....I guess all the crap I was put thru on so many levels was meant to happen to find me way to her.

The irony of all of this is over the last 2 years my friends and I made up this woman we called, "KC" to get my ex to let go of me and make the best of the boo boo she made chosing this loser woman....she tried to get me to take her back and I would not. So we invented the most perfect woman for me and we used this imaginary woman to push my ex away from me and spare me the BS since I cannot forgive infidelity...

So over the 2 years everyone that knew me kept adding another part of this woman we created since she did not exist we got silly and quite unrealistic because we could.

What did we invent? Let me share.

Understand.

The attributes me invented were not for the materialism or spoils, they were criteria invented that if matched would most likely have tolerance for my love of water, fishing etc......

Example of KC:

a) House on ocean with dock and fireplace

Owns a boat

c) Drives a mercedes and loves trucks since I just got one

d) Has to be Italian

e) Strong and self starter, goal oriented, independent and relentless

f) Spiritual

g) Athletic build [fantasy body type] and preferred blonde streaked hair.

In Sept I went to a local gay and lesbian social at a local country club, saw this woman but never talked to her but made it point to look at her alot because she had the fantasy physical I don't see often.

Fast forward.

2 months later at 9AM, Donnie and I pull into a bait store 35 miles away from where I set eyes on her, did not know her name or where she lived. We walk in and she is right in front of me, I recognized her immediatly. She has a deep dark dark tan, had bikini top on and baggies and we talked, she gave me her card and she said she had to scoot she had her boat in the slip.

I was like "Hmmmm", has a boat, cool....

I took her business card, ran the phone numbers and got her address and went to county property appraisers and looked up her address and DAMN.

She has a house on the water, had a fireplace and she told me in the bait store she had a boat....

The card has her name she was Italian NO question....

Long story short:

She had a mercedes and a black silverado Z71
Lives on the water, has a dock and fireplace
Is Italian
Retired at the age of 52, she is 54 now.
Strong and has a body of a 30 year old, blonde streaked hair, 110 lbs with athletic build because she is a avid surfer.

Is this divine intervention or what?

Did not want the mercedes and money does not impress me since I had those career thrills over the years...

But those attributes we developed for this imaginary KC to protect my desire to be on the water and fishing, so if she lived on the water and had a boat how could she get pissed at my love for fishing and boating?

The meaning for the need for her to have a nice car was a qualifier she needed to have class and style.....

All those qualifiers I listed above were kinda a screening device to find the person most compatible for me...

KC was NO supposed to exist.....and welp, she does.

We are so in love, and it is grand at my ripe age of 47.

She is also spiritual and accompanied me to Washington DC last week for me to profess as a novitiate. I am a Sister NOT a nun, so spare me the jokes....:-)))))

I would show you a pic of me in my robes but not in the mood for parody or abuse.

So anyhoo, just wanted to come here and tell you where I been and where I am, and I am so grateful to have had these last 2 years to rebuild my life on many levels and get a chance to experience true love once and I thought I knew what love was.

Nope I did not, so I am so glad my 16 year marriage ended....this woman gives me more than a lifetime to absorb and enjoy.

Last edited by LeeNoga at Jan 21 2004, 08:44 AM

01-21-2004	#1
LeeNoga Members Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 394	NOT that you missed me, and Nope I did not do the Vegas show but as miraculous as it sounds I am in love with the most spectacular woman I will refer to as "JJ".....to think I spent 16 years in a loveless marriage which I ended in 2001.....I guess all the crap I was put thru on so many levels was meant to happen to find me way to her. The irony of all of this is over the last 2 years my friends and I made up this woman we called, "KC" to get my ex to let go of me and make the best of the boo boo she made chosing this loser woman....she tried to get me to take her back and I would not. So we invented the most perfect woman for me and we used this imaginary woman to push my ex away from me and spare me the BS since I cannot forgive infidelity... So over the 2 years everyone that knew me kept adding another part of this woman we created since she did not exist we got silly and quite unrealistic because we could. What did we invent? Let me share. Understand. The attributes me invented were not for the materialism or spoils, they were criteria invented that if matched would most likely have tolerance for my love of water, fishing etc...... Example of KC: a) House on ocean with dock and fireplace Owns a boat c) Drives a mercedes and loves trucks since I just got one d) Has to be Italian e) Strong and self starter, goal oriented, independent and relentless f) Spiritual g) Athletic build [fantasy body type] and preferred blonde streaked hair. In Sept I went to a local gay and lesbian social at a local country club, saw this woman but never talked to her but made it point to look at her alot because she had the fantasy physical I don't see often. Fast forward. 2 months later at 9AM, Donnie and I pull into a bait store 35 miles away from where I set eyes on her, did not know her name or where she lived. We walk in and she is right in front of me, I recognized her immediatly. She has a deep dark dark tan, had bikini top on and baggies and we talked, she gave me her card and she said she had to scoot she had her boat in the slip. I was like "Hmmmm", has a boat, cool.... I took her business card, ran the phone numbers and got her address and went to county property appraisers and looked up her address and DAMN. She has a house on the water, had a fireplace and she told me in the bait store she had a boat.... The card has her name she was Italian NO question.... Long story short: She had a mercedes and a black silverado Z71 Lives on the water, has a dock and fireplace Is Italian Retired at the age of 52, she is 54 now. Strong and has a body of a 30 year old, blonde streaked hair, 110 lbs with athletic build because she is a avid surfer. Is this divine intervention or what? Did not want the mercedes and money does not impress me since I had those career thrills over the years... But those attributes we developed for this imaginary KC to protect my desire to be on the water and fishing, so if she lived on the water and had a boat how could she get pissed at my love for fishing and boating? The meaning for the need for her to have a nice car was a qualifier she needed to have class and style..... All those qualifiers I listed above were kinda a screening device to find the person most compatible for me... KC was NO supposed to exist.....and welp, she does. We are so in love, and it is grand at my ripe age of 47. She is also spiritual and accompanied me to Washington DC last week for me to profess as a novitiate. I am a Sister NOT a nun, so spare me the jokes....:-))))) I would show you a pic of me in my robes but not in the mood for parody or abuse. So anyhoo, just wanted to come here and tell you where I been and where I am, and I am so grateful to have had these last 2 years to rebuild my life on many levels and get a chance to experience true love once and I thought I knew what love was. Nope I did not, so I am so glad my 16 year marriage ended....this woman gives me more than a lifetime to absorb and enjoy. Last edited by LeeNoga at Jan 21 2004, 08:44 AM __________________ Please see the sig rules, which is pinned for your convenience.