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Can't tell you how many times I've run across webmasters at shows and get-togethers that have told me they are too intimidated to post at Oprano. Not sure why. Maybe because it seems like an "old boys and girls club". Well, it's good to be part of the club.
Just thought this was interesting and worth sharing.
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Do you think it's fear of being ridiculed by someone? Or do you think Oprano has developed a reputation for being the "deep end" of the adult webmaster swimming pool?
Colin....i hear the same thing a lot also.....it seems the " deep end" theory applies here....but they should know...once you jump in....the water is fine!
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My perspective.
GFY is the monster but it's use at this point is only for marketing, and entertainment which in most cases is combined.
I post there, I even post a lot of nonsense. Why? Because that's what draws those people there and it works.
There are some intelligent people on that board 2 people I have always been afraid to debate...LOL are you Colin and Labret...but in general there are a lot more idiots so I kind of look at it like big fish in a little pond syndrom.
There are those who will continue to float around that little pond gobbling up the little fish because they are afraid to venture out into deeper waters where the sharks are waiting.
I don't post here as much but I do read a lot and one thing it's kind of hard for someone to come in here and act like they are hot shit making $200K a year when someone can quickly put them in their place because they were making that in a few days.
Anyway that's my take on things.
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but it could use a little loosening around the collar....
but then again I see the point of not wanting a bunch of useless junk clouding up an already busy day of work too.....
But all work and NO play makes jack a DULL boy....
plus being told you are a stupid fuck, by another stupid fuck, does not quite scare a person or intimidate them, as does being called a stupid fuck, my somone smarter than you....LOL
ego, jelousy, and greed will always rule it is a fact of human nature...
and drama will sell, look at any section of popular culture to find the evidence of that...
there could be a perfect balance if there were true centrist, to further that cause (funny just like politics too eh?)
but it seems we like to group everyone into the haves and have nots, and nobody wants to be referred to as a has not.....
Since Oprano was launched people have told me they are intimidated to post. I find it pretty interesting, to me G FY seems to be a more intimidating place to post - no matter what you post there, SOMEONE will flame you. ( of course its probably some 16 yeard old kid in him mom's basement)
I do not think Opranuts are tough on new posters. It is only when threads are started about "would you hit this?" ( lets face it a majority of people at most boards would be happy to hit anything) and other bullshit posts that people should fear posting.
Even then, there is really nothing to be intimidated about - so someone flames another person a little, get over it. Serge's style with newbs has always been to be tough on them, those who over come and get past Serge normally end up donig pretty well in the industry.
Reminds me of a professor I had in law school my first semester. He would purposely grill students and try to intimidate them. His point was if you were intimidated by a professor and could not handle yourself, you would never be able to handle a tough judge. This professor was actually responsible for a few students every semester dropping out.
After the first semester, once you made it past his class - he was the coolest, nicest guy you would want to meet.
Bottom line is, as the song goes, if you Can make it Oprano, you can make it anywhere!
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Originally posted by Mike AI@Jun 20 2004, 10:15 AM Since Oprano was launched people have told me they are intimidated to post. I find it pretty interesting, to me G FY seems to be a more intimidating place to post - no matter what you post there, SOMEONE will flame you. ( of course its probably some 16 yeard old kid in him mom's basement)
This is interesting because I have thought the same thing. You could write "the sky is blue" at GFY and someone will argue against it.
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Originally posted by Colin+Jun 20 2004, 10:26 AM-->
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Originally posted by Mike AI@Jun 20 2004, 10:15 AM Since Oprano was launched people have told me they are intimidated to post. I find it pretty interesting, to me G FY seems to be a more intimidating place to post - no matter what you post there, SOMEONE will flame you. ( of course its probably some 16 yeard old kid in him mom's basement)
I do not think Opranuts are tough on new posters. It is only when threads are started about "would you hit this?" ( lets face it a majority of people at most boards would be happy to hit anything) and other bullshit posts that people should fear posting.
Even then, there is really nothing to be intimidated about - so someone flames another person a little, get over it. Serge's style with newbs has always been to be tough on them, those who over come and get past Serge normally end up donig pretty well in the industry.
Reminds me of a professor I had in law school my first semester. He would purposely grill students and try to intimidate them. His point was if you were intimidated by a professor and could not handle yourself, you would never be able to handle a tough judge. This professor was actually responsible for a few students every semester dropping out.
After the first semester, once you made it past his class - he was the coolest, nicest guy you would want to meet.
Bottom line is, as the song goes, if you Can make it Oprano, you can make it anywhere!
Yeah but there 90% of the time when you're flamed at GFY it's simply a "you're an idiot" type of flame or an obscenity bomb type of flame rather than the thoughtful skewering you can experience here.
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Originally posted by TheEnforcer@Jun 20 2004, 07:42 AM
Yeah but there 90% of the time when you're flamed at GFY it's simply a "you're an idiot" type of flame or an obscenity bomb type of flame rather than the thoughtful skewering you can experience here.
"thoughtful skewering"... what a lovely turn of phrase Colin!
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Getting your first flames from someone well known can be very devasating. (So, most of the time GFY don't count)
I remember my first two. One with Ian and the first with Serge. After you get through that - nothing bothers ya much. But, that first is something you don't look forward to and try to avoid...... thus you have to have confidence to post a lot. Sometimes lurkers are intimadated because they don't realize that things are taken 'with a grain of salt on boards, that people don't particulatily believe everything they read, and many are different in real life than their board personna.
Really lurkers, it is not the end of the world to be flamed...... it is a part of maturing sometimes. If you have nothing to hide, then don't worry about it. Often good things come from it......
Actually I think Serge may have granted me franchise on "Ya snooze - ya lose"
I can't believe I have made 442 posts on this board....... and I don't remember getting flamed here yet................(or maybe my skin is just thicker & I have already forgotten)
But, I am sure Serge will rise to that challenge...... Please spare me.... please...(tear falling)
Most of the "regulars" here are veterans of the boards, many of us starting at Jonathan's and then migrating to YNOT. We've seen the flame/piss wars, been called every name imaginable FOR YEARS and just built up a very tough skin against it! :P
for some reason i ended up bumpin heads with Serge over on gfy. next thing i know we are throwing comments back and forth there so i figured id come over here to save him some time.
now, ofcourse ive done alot of growing since this happened, and hell i even like Serges broken english now.
As someone who is relatively new in the business and not being an american I probably might be one of the persons you are talking about.
I do post on some other boards, mainly on THE other board because it helps me doing my business. Some might consider it as spam, but when I post some of my models and offer them for shoots, nearly evertime I get a new customer. Real discussions on that board are impossible, too much idiots hanging around. But on boards where you are not allowed to "advertise" in the main forum, it is very often the problem that the business/advertising forums are verly low frequented. And for me it is a big difference whether 10, 100 or 500 people look at my posting (as long as I try to make business out of it).
And the next big problem about being present at several boards is simply a time problem. Because we are still struggling to be successful, I cannot spend too much time for posting/reading. I need to get some work done.
So I try to focus my efforts to become famous and successful in the business.
Originally posted by MaDalton@Jun 21 2004, 07:40 AM Hi!
As someone who is relatively new in the business and not being an american I probably might be one of the persons you are talking about.
I do post on some other boards, mainly on THE other board because it helps me doing my business. Some might consider it as spam, but when I post some of my models and offer them for shoots, nearly evertime I get a new customer. Real discussions on that board are impossible, too much idiots hanging around. But on boards where you are not allowed to "advertise" in the main forum, it is very often the problem that the business/advertising forums are verly low frequented. And for me it is a big difference whether 10, 100 or 500 people look at my posting (as long as I try to make business out of it).
And the next big problem about being present at several boards is simply a time problem. Because we are still struggling to be successful, I cannot spend too much time for posting/reading. I need to get some work done.
So I try to focus my efforts to become famous and successful in the business.
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Yout make some good points.
Oprano will let spam slide when it comes from those who particpate in the fourms. If you want to take from Oprano, you should give. It is a simple concept.
Time is definately a factor as well. Being an effective board whore takes time.
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I guess people are affraid of being looked with a microscope,
Oprano is a VERY bullshit intollerant board,
and with the amount of bullshit flying high in this industry,
I wouldn't blame anybody who feels intimidated
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I discovered VERY early on in my posting lifetime here (I had lurked for ages before, but I lurked everywhere for ages before) that you will get tested VERY quickly.
I would imagine that many when asked to put up, shut up. And then vote with their feet and make up little stories about how "stuck up" and "cliquey" Oprano is.
I ask myself everyday why I just didn't just shut up, especially when I see from a post reply from CJ in one of my threads !!!
He eh eh. J/k Carla
I agree with Serge - there is not a culture here for tolerating bullshit, and even moreso, you are QUESTIONED and then at LENGTH. There are a couple of other good boards who just ignore stuff... that does NOT happen here.
With the amount of crap and crap people in this biz (many of who I unfortunately know personally!!) is it any wonder people don't want to be put to the test and generally shown up for what they are?
Oprano is my favorite board - smart AND savvy people, plenty to say, always willing to question, poke and prod, but also always willing to find a fair argument and put their hands up if they were off the mark.
In my mind, it is almost a badge of honor to be a regular poster here (read for that poster of THREADS) because you are constantly open to the scrutiny of the crowd on this board. And boy-o-boy, anyone who has read some of the threads I have been in here in the past 2-3 months would KNOW that the scrutiny is VERY pointed and VERY specific.
That is way cool.
I HATE bullshit, and DESPISE liars (there's that hate diet of mine again Serge!!) - That's why it is a pleasure to spend my time here.
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Originally posted by urb@Jun 21 2004, 11:25 AM Speaking as an outsider here.....
Oprano has always been on my "read-only" list for a long time, because I have very little in common with most of you.
So why am I posting here now? Maybe it's because I ain't worried about the microscope anymore.
So you didn't post for a long time because you had very little in common with "most of us" or because you were worried about being put under the microscope? ;-) <-- note wink.
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Originally posted by Colin@Jun 21 2004, 04:30 PM So you didn't post for a long time because you had very little in common with "most of us" or because you were worried about being put under the microscope? ;-) <-- note wink.
Probably because I have very little in common with most of you.
But let's get all my skeletons out of the closet in one post then....
1) I'm British.
2) I don't make a huge amount of money.
3) I suffer with paranoid schizophrenia.
Any other poor British psychos in here??? I think not.
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I cannot speak for anyone else, but I have never found Oprano intimidating in the least.
and, I am American of British descent, do not make a whole lot of money in this industry and all of my personalities are paranoid schizophrenic.
I am not sure, but I think my first post was on the flat board jumping in on a Torone conversation and calling him on bullshit. I might have made a happy birthday Oprano post back before that.
That was back when Serge would occasionally pop his head in over at VNWR and give us DFN's a little Serge advice, so some of us would occasionally pop in over here, especially on specail occasions and give Serge a wave or two.