Asia Carerra's husband dies in crash

[gonzo]

http://www.asiacarrera.com/bulletin.html

Reposted from her site incase you dont like to click links

06/11 - ...and the fairy tale comes to an end. The police just left my house. Don was driving home from a business meeting in Las Vegas, and he got into an accident and rolled the Jeep. He's dead. He's never coming back to me. My husband, my soulmate, my other half, the one I was meant to grow old with. I'm almost 8 months pregnant with a son he will never get to see, and I have a one year old daughter who will never be able to remember anything about her father... and he was such a GOOD father to her, she was such a daddy's girl you wouldn't have believed it! Now she'll just have to take my word for it when I tell her how much daddy loved her, because she's too young to remember him for too much longer. Oh god, how that breaks my heart. How am I going to go on without him? How am I going to get a job at almost 8 months pregnant, with a one year old baby??? I couldn't go back to porn even if I wanted to, I'm much too huge. My ex-hubby, Bud Lee, is driving out here in the morning with another good friend of mine, and they are going to help me get through this. Somehow. If anyone wants to make a charitable donation to a pregnant widow who doesn't know how she's going to raise these two babies on her own, there's a spot on my sales page where you can donate up to $100. If anyone wants to send more than that (I'd be forever grateful!), you can use my Paypal Account, to address asiac@asiacarrera.com (that's asiaC@, not just asia@). I trust that no one out there is heartless enough to misuse that email address at a time like this. Oh god how I wish I could wake up from this nightmare. My life went from being a dream come true to hell on earth in just an instant. Please keep me in your thoughts and send me strength! I've got to get through this for my two little babies, otherwise I swear I'd have nothing to live for anymore. But I have no choice, I will do the best I can for Catty and Devin, somehow, some way, I must...
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[TheEnforcer]

Wow. My condolonces to her.

[gonzo]

Looks pretty bad.
Shes a very smart woman but lets face it. Its not going to help her out with a 1 year old and one on the way.

I've just donated my entire AEBN check to her.

I wont be asking everyone to send me cash so I can match the donation or any of that grandstanding bullshit. Ive always found it in poor taste when companies use anothers tragedy as a cheap marketing vehicle.

I can only hope others will do what they can.

[seanpatrick]

Yes, very sad. I've been spearding the word on the other forums. I sent what money I could. Seems to be alot of the "She should have saved, I'm not helping her out" sentiment out there which is even sadder.

Sean

[LadyMischief]

That's terrible. I'll definitely send what I can. I can't possibly imagine. A lesson to all the people out there to have life insurance.. it's a $150 a month or so that could save your entire life if the worst happens.

[Peaches]

Originally Posted by LadyMischief

That's terrible. I'll definitely send what I can. I can't possibly imagine. A lesson to all the people out there to have life insurance.. it's a $150 a month or so that could save your entire life if the worst happens.

Even less than that here in the states. I had a $350K policy I was paying less than $50 a month for.

[LadyMischief]

Originally Posted by Peaches

Even less than that here in the states. I had a $350K policy I was paying less than $50 a month for.

Then there's really no reason why everyone shouldn't have one.. Especially ones with children.

[kath]

I was watching a documentary on satellite this weekend (HBO or Showtime or something) about the legacy of Debbie Does Dallas - and realized that a lot of people don't realize that porn flicks do NOT pay residuals like they do in other entertainment businesses... it's typically a one-shot payment deal. On Asia's site it shows she did 250+ films in her time... we are all guilty of thinking that the money will keep flowing, that it will last forever. Spend it like you got it, always spending more than you make... pick your cliche... everyone has been guilty of thinking of today rather than tomorrow - living in the moment.

I feel sorry for her situation - to be that happy, in a place that she probably never thought she could achieve - a loving husband, a gorgeous baby girl and a son on the way.. to lose it all... it's heart breaking.

[Hell Puppy]

Sad...

But I'm perplexed about the financial stuff. She's smart, made good money, but no insurance? Nothing saved?

We've seen plenty of people snort, gamble and blow thru insane amounts of money and end up flat broke, but I really didn't figure her to be one.

[Peaches]

Originally Posted by Hell Puppy

Sad...

But I'm perplexed about the financial stuff. She's smart, made good money, but no insurance? Nothing saved?

We've seen plenty of people snort, gamble and blow thru insane amounts of money and end up flat broke, but I really didn't figure her to be one.

No one has said that. As stated before, she could easily be in a panic mode. She needed a car ASAP. If she's not liquid, it could take a week or two to get money from selling stocks. Stocks are also low so it might make sense for her to go to her fans before she lost money by selling stocks. Some could be in 401Ks or IRAs where she'd lose money cashing them out.

And AGAIN, she didn't come to the boards with this. Duck Ford did. Asia posted this on her own personal website to her own personal fans. I can tell you her mind is spinning and she probably won't remember much of what she did this week or next for several months.

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by Peaches

No one has said that. As stated before, she could easily be in a panic mode. She needed a car ASAP. If she's not liquid, it could take a week or two to get money from selling stocks. Stocks are also low so it might make sense for her to go to her fans before she lost money by selling stocks. Some could be in 401Ks or IRAs where she'd lose money cashing them out.

And AGAIN, she didn't come to the boards with this. Duck Ford did. Asia posted this on her own personal website to her own personal fans. I can tell you her mind is spinning and she probably won't remember much of what she did this week or next for several months.

Shes been answering email.

[kath]

Originally Posted by Peaches

No one has said that. As stated before, she could easily be in a panic mode. She needed a car ASAP. If she's not liquid, it could take a week or two to get money from selling stocks. Stocks are also low so it might make sense for her to go to her fans before she lost money by selling stocks. Some could be in 401Ks or IRAs where she'd lose money cashing them out.

And AGAIN, she didn't come to the boards with this. Duck Ford did. Asia posted this on her own personal website to her own personal fans. I can tell you her mind is spinning and she probably won't remember much of what she did this week or next for several months.

I was thinking the same thing last night too Peaches... panic mode... I also checked out some of the links on her site - looks like hubby had quite the online biz going there with lots of oars in the water... I bet she was just freaking out... being 8 months pregnant doesn't help... and very true - she didn't troll the boards, just posted to her loyal readers and others brought it to the boards... glad to read in her blog that she has her ex and friends on the way to help support her.... but you could read in her posts - it was pure panic.

[JoesHO]

I would like to talk to her about a job working for us at Earl's Angels if anyone has a contact other than e-mail please let me know so she can call us or I can call her to discuss this possibility with her .

Thank you,

Joe

[Peaches]

Originally Posted by gonzo

Shes been answering email.

I was answering WEG's emails the day after my son died. Certainly doesn't mean I was in my right frame of mind.

[Rolo]

Originally Posted by JoesHO

I would like to talk to her about a job working for us at Earl's Angels if anyone has a contact other than e-mail please let me know so she can call us or I can call her to discuss this possibility with her .

Thank you,

Joe

That is really classy Joe

How about you try and READ and UNDERSTAND the situation, before you turn on your spam mode.

[Timon]

Originally Posted by JoesHO

I would like to talk to her about a job working for us at Earl's Angels if anyone has a contact other than e-mail please let me know so she can call us or I can call her to discuss this possibility with her .

Thank you,

Joe

I think a lobotomy would be appropriate if you had any brains to fry but you don't so euthanasia is probably the only option left for you.

At the very least please get yourself sterilized so you don't risk infecting the human race with your faulty genes.

[Mike AI]

I am with you Hellpuppy!

I do not know why Asia is looking for donations? She is a Mensa member, a world famous porn star, who has run a very successful website. Surely she has money saved up for a situation like this? Certainly she was prepaired with insurance, and other things some of us non-genuises even manage to have set up.

Any lose of innocent life at a young age is sad, but I find the donation link pretty swarmy.

Guess Pattycake will be lining up a online auction next....

[Inabon]

Originally Posted by JoesHO

I would like to talk to her about a job working for us at Earl's Angels if anyone has a contact other than e-mail please let me know so she can call us or I can call her to discuss this possibility with her .

Thank you,

Joe

ermn mm

don't think she would feel good now i would have tried to contact her privately. if email don't work then move on.

[JoesHO]

Hey listen you idiot three low class fucks, this is not about me, or what you think of me, or your jealousy of how much better than you I am .

you will just have to learn to live with your own shortcomings.

if you have nothing constructive to add, go back to your caves and be miserable all to yourselves.


I have a company to run and could use a mensa member and someone with as much class as Asia carrera

I know all you big hitters with all your ( false) millions are warren buffet when it comes to investing and business moves but some people ( most of the world ) need jobs, and if I can hire her and help her out of a bad situation and also fill a position we need filled ....... well that is how business gets done . sorry we are not talking about scams, and spams, and the old days anymore here to entertain you, like the good ole days . It has been said already to the point of becoming moot , SOME OF US CARE ABOUT BUSINESS AND ARE HERE TO DO BUSINESS


Fuck off if you are not .

[Peaches]

Originally Posted by Mike AI

I am with you Hellpuppy!

I do not know why Asia is looking for donations? She is a Mensa member, a world famous porn star, who has run a very successful website. Surely she has money saved up for a situation like this? Certainly she was prepaired with insurance, and other things some of us non-genuises even manage to have set up.

Any lose of innocent life at a young age is sad, but I find the donation link pretty swarmy.

Guess Pattycake will be lining up a online auction next....

She asked for them on her OWN website and honestly, she's clearly in a state of panic and I doubt she'll even remember what she does for the next few weeks.

If her money is tied up in stocks, it's not something that's easily accessible. If her husband's business is making money, she may not have a check sitting in front of her.

Bottom line - if you want to donate, do it, but attacking her for doing whatever she needs to do to take care of her kids isn't worth anyone's effort, IMO.

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by Peaches

Bottom line - if you want to donate, do it, but attacking her for doing whatever she needs to do to take care of her kids isn't worth anyone's effort, IMO.

I agree.
And if Earl and Joe are in a position to strengthen her future all the better.

[Mike AI]

Originally Posted by Peaches

She asked for them on her OWN website and honestly, she's clearly in a state of panic and I doubt she'll even remember what she does for the next few weeks.

If her money is tied up in stocks, it's not something that's easily accessible. If her husband's business is making money, she may not have a check sitting in front of her.

Bottom line - if you want to donate, do it, but attacking her for doing whatever she needs to do to take care of her kids isn't worth anyone's effort, IMO.

What a crock!! It is easy to sell stock, just put in a sell order. It is easy to justify and make excuses. I promise you that Asia has made significantly more money then You or Gonzo the past 10 years and I doubt she would be first in line to bail you guys out.

This is a lesson that people should have plans, life insurance and other necessities of life set up when bad things happen.

Let's face it, in this life it is not a matter of IF something bad will happen, but rather WHEN.

[JR]

Originally Posted by JoesHO

Hey listen you idiot three low class fucks, this is not about me, or what you think of me, or your jealousy of how much better than you I am .

you will just have to learn to live with your own shortcomings.

if you have nothing constructive to add, go back to your caves and be miserable all to yourselves.

I have a company to run and could use a mensa member and someone with as much class as Asia carrera

I know all you big hitters with all your ( false) millions are warren buffet when it comes to investing and business moves but some people ( most of the world ) need jobs, and if I can hire her and help her out of a bad situation and also fill a position we need filled ....... well that is how business gets done . sorry we are not talking about scams, and spams, and the old days anymore here to entertain you, like the good ole days . It has been said already to the point of becoming moot , SOME OF US CARE ABOUT BUSINESS AND ARE HERE TO DO BUSINESS


Fuck off if you are not .

Joe ... no matter how you want to spin it... its pretty low class to start threads asking if anyone knows how to contact her because you want to offer her a job. its spam. spam at the worst possible time. you KNOW people that know how to contact her. she answers all her own e-mails for which the addresses are freely available (namely on her site)

if you wanted to help, you could have simply asked almost anyone how to contact her and done so in privately. that would be the tactful thing to do given the situation.

if you want to help her... send money. you don't need to make it public and throw in the company name here and there.


jmho

[tony404]

I think your wrong Joe is trying to do something honorable, asking on a board if anyone knows how to contact her isnt a crazy thought this is a adult webmaster board. A job would help her more then sending $100 thru paypal.

[JR]

Originally Posted by tony404

I think your wrong Joe is trying to do something honorable, asking on a board if anyone knows how to contact her isnt a crazy thought this is a adult webmaster board. A job would help her more then sending $100 thru paypal.

if you are a content provider and you can't figure out how to contact one of adults most famous porn stars without asking 2000 people on multiple forums and posting your offer in detail to the whole world... then its time to consider doing something else.

[Forsberg's Dog]

Originally Posted by Timon

I think a lobotomy would be appropriate if you had any brains to fry but you don't so euthanasia is probably the only option left for you.

At the very least please get yourself sterilized so you don't risk infecting the human race with your faulty genes.

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[Hell Puppy]

Originally Posted by Hell Puppy

Sad...

But I'm perplexed about the financial stuff. She's smart, made good money, but no insurance? Nothing saved?

We've seen plenty of people snort, gamble and blow thru insane amounts of money and end up flat broke, but I really didn't figure her to be one.

And we have our answer in her latest update on her site.... Online gambling...

Seems legit broke and no idea where the next paycheck is coming from. Lost half when the bubble burst, gambled away another half while distraught over her ex-boyfriend being deported and being alone, sunk what was left into downpayment for the house she's in now.

Husband ran the show financially and had nothing in the bank.

Intelligence doesn't win out over deep root psychological issues....

[Hammer]

When you make money in the usual ways, a certain amount of knowledge and common sense has already been learned, often in college, but when someone gets paid to fuck just because they look pretty, it's not likely that they will know how to handle the money once they make it.

Jenna Jameson, Danni Ashe and Brittney Andrews are examples of intelligent and shrewd business women, but the average porn star is a long way from being either of those things.

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by Hammer

When you make money in the usual ways, a certain amount of knowledge and common sense has already been learned, often in college, but when someone gets paid to fuck just because they look pretty, it's not likely that they will know how to handle the money once they make it.

Jenna Jameson, Danni Ashe and Brittney Andrews are examples of intelligent and shrewd business women, but the average porn star is a long way from being either of those things.

As an aside .... Brittney is also a great videographer.

[Hell Puppy]

Originally Posted by Hammer

When you make money in the usual ways, a certain amount of knowledge and common sense has already been learned, often in college, but when someone gets paid to fuck just because they look pretty, it's not likely that they will know how to handle the money once they make it.

Jenna Jameson, Danni Ashe and Brittney Andrews are examples of intelligent and shrewd business women, but the average porn star is a long way from being either of those things.

Hard to question Asia's intelligence. But that obviously didn't protect her from some psychological demons. Combine that with some dependency issues and perhaps an addictive personality and money went bye bye.

No money, no job, no husband, one baby to care for and another one in the oven at 8 months....bad scene. And long since estranged from family.

[Hammer]

Originally Posted by Hell Puppy

And long since estranged from family.

And thanks to running her mouth when she left the industry, an estranged business family too. Burning bridges is never a good idea.