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Old 06-12-2007   #1
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Here is a thought provoking question for you all.

When you tell someone you'll do something for them, business wise, do you
ever rethink that commitment and cancel the deal/engagement/meal/call?
If so do you come up with a lame excuse or do you tell the truth
(cause you know in this biz someone will tell it for you if you don't)?


I am older than a lot of people I deal with. But,I believe me when I say this...
If I tell you I am going to do something for you, I'll do it or go down trying.

And as luck would be, if I can't figure out a way to make it happen...
I will tell you face to face the exact reason I can't do the deed.

This makes no sense to some of you, the FFN's know exactly what I am talking about.


People tell your secrets. If you want no one to know... keep it to yourself.
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Old 06-12-2007   #2
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Here is a thought provoking question for you all.

When you tell someone you'll do something for them, business wise, do you
ever rethink that commitment and cancel the deal/engagement/meal/call?
If so do you come up with a lame excuse or do you tell the truth
(cause you know in this biz someone will tell it for you if you don't)?


I am older than a lot of people I deal with. But,I believe me when I say this...
If I tell you I am going to do something for you, I'll do it or go down trying.

And as luck would be, if I can't figure out a way to make it happen...
I will tell you face to face the exact reason I can't do the deed.

This makes no sense to some of you, the FFN's know exactly what I am talking about.


People tell your secrets. If you want no one to know... keep it to yourself.
Its very hard to help out someone when they consistantly fall short at the very last minute. What makes it worse is the fact that you know they are good folks at heart but it still doesnt make it any better.

Especially when you go to bat for them to help out only to be left looking like a major asshole in the end.

And the topper was being publically lied to.

I wont do it again.
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Old 06-12-2007   #3
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I see where you both are coming from.

And I have figured it out.

If what i'm being told is 100% true... hell 50% true, then that is very sad.

I won't make the same mistake.
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I've had to put my coaching practice on hold but if you need help keeping your commitments and working on impoving your reliability call me.


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There is a story behind this I am sure.. LOL

Whatever it is I feel for ya Kathi.
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Shelleehale, welcome!

I am in Seattle often( my Hubby lives there). I appreciate your offer and I will keep that in mind.

However, I do keep my commitments. Maybe there are others that post on this board that could utilize your services.

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I don't make a commitments unless I know I can keep it. I also try my hardest to do favors for friends FOR FREE (if they let me)

I don't have many friends in the industry (even though i have been around quite a long time)
And I don't generally make commitments


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I've had to put my coaching practice on hold but if you need help keeping your commitments and working on impoving your reliability call me.


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Certified Life Coach, International Coach Federation and Professional Association of Intuitive Consultants
20 years of personal and corporate coaching/consulting experience. Shellee will work with you on an action plan for your business or personal agenda that WILL WORK.
Fortune Magazine says "THE HOTTEST THING IN MANAGEMENT IS AN EXECUTIVE COACH." Get one now!
I am here to help heal, repair and transform one mind at a time. Call today for a more successful tomorrow.
Change your life forever for the better. Shellee will help you find the path of least resistance so that your own success will come effortlessly personally and professionally. You are just one call away from a much better day!

Shellee has over 20 years of coaching/consulting experience. She is a Certified Life Coach and a professional member of the International Coach Federation and Professional Association of Intuitive Consultants. If you are struggling with the message in "The Secret" call me for the work that you can do to enhance your creative process for your life. It is not as easy as stated in this book. There is work involved and karmic power in play. If your experiences have been heavy on the negative side you may need some clearing which I can help with.
Process, consistency and time are all need to create and you may be asking for the wrong thing, clarity and precision are important. For instance...
You may ask to be thin, but are you asking at the cost of your health?
You may ask to win the lottery or great wealth, but are you willing to accept the problems of new wealth?
You may ask for a spouse, but do you want one that abuses you?
Be careful and be clear, otherwise with the attraction power you can make a big mess of things in your life.
Shellee is a transformational expert, her true clients give her a perfect rating every time. Everything in your life will get better after one call.



You are one call away from a much better day!

CALL 1-877-450-9009


TESTIMONIALS
DateRated ByRatingComments6/3/2007 Mbar Exceptional, significant, really just all there in a big way. 100% A+ 5/30/2007 widerisbetter Great Call! 4/27/2007 widerisbetter Superb! 4/21/2007 tomwilson42 4/14/2007 yandrea 4/10/2007 dsfriesz 3/11/2007 Member 8206279 2/22/2007 happimac 2/19/2007 lauralee214

Yeah, you may have read too much into that one.

I assure you Kathi is not one who has trouble with reliability. That thought actually makes me laugh, as she's one of the most dependable people I've ever known.

I think this one will unfold soon enough. I suspect sabres are rattling just a little bit to see if anyone has anything they wanna fess up and explain themselves.... Kind of a letting them know that we know deal.

Bottom line, there's thousands of people in the business, but the industry is very closeknit and feels much smaller. There aren't a lot of secrets that stay secrets.
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