Real names on a message board

[softball]

Or sometimes the use of real names is an attempt to intimidate. Like in the case of Evil Chris or Jeff Miller or Jon Allaby using my name. There is no other reason. Evil seems to have been strangely silent on this one.

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by rhetorical

Or sometimes the use of real names is an attempt to intimidate. Like in the case of Evil Chris or Jeff Miller or Jon Allaby using my name. There is no other reason. Evil seems to have been strangely silent on this one.

OK, I admit. I left out that possibility. I live in my own rather unique little world at times.

I don't want to think that's what Chris did. I like him a lot, have for years. Longer than we'd both rather think about, probably. I'd much prefer to believe it was an error.

Also, if analyzed logically, it was a poor attempt at intimidation, if you elect to put that interpretation on it. I don't know you (I don't believe, I have a miserable memory at times) but from what I've gathered from your posts, it would take a great deal more than that to intimidate you. Irritate you, perhaps, but certainly not intimidate you.

We work in a fragile world with an ineffective method of communication. Grown people click on "smilies" to make sure they're not misunderstood. We are victims of our own realities, too. A bad day in the "real world" can create havoc in our virtual existence where we can take out our frustrations or pain on a made up name, forgetting completely that behind this made up name is a very real person. I can't tell you the number of times the fact that my physical pain was amping its way up the 10 scale and I took personally something I should have just ignored - and would have just ignored if I wasn't typing under the influence of Vicodin.

[Sabby]

Originally Posted by rhetorical

Or sometimes the use of real names is an attempt to intimidate. Like in the case of Evil Chris or Jeff Miller or Jon Allaby using my name. There is no other reason. Evil seems to have been strangely silent on this one.

YOU threatened to post mine on this board before. You even posted the first letter. I dont even know how you found it out. I have never done any business with you.

You seem to know alot about me. I find that strange.

That's one of the reasons why I always thought you are a stalker.


Sabby

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Sabby

YOU threatened to post mine on this board before. You even posted the first letter. I dont even know how you found it out. I have never done any business with you.

You seem to know alot about me. I find that strange.

That's one of the reasons why I always thought you are a stalker.


Sabby

Oh, please no. Not Sabby. Rhetorical, tell me that you didn't try and hurt Sabby.

This is usually the part where my icq lights up with a screaming "when are you going to fucking learn not to be so damned nice?!?!?!"

[Dianna Vesta]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

Oh, please no. Not Sabby. Rhetorical, tell me that you didn't try and hurt Sabby.

This is usually the part where my icq lights up with a screaming "when are you going to fucking learn not to be so damned nice?!?!?!"

Get 'em!

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Dianna Vesta

Get 'em!

Dianna, I swear I can't win. I made a conscious decision to post intelligent, friendly posts to rhetorical...and that's what I got back. "So far so good," I thought to myself. "See, be nice - get nice."

But...Sabby. Sabby is one of those people. She always has been. She's always been nothing but nice to me. Intelligent, funny, witty, totally professional...a person can't help but love the woman. (I've even forgiven her for being so damned beautiful!)

It scares me that she's so damned vulnerable because of what she does for a living. There are a lot of clients of hers that can't separate reality from fantasy. Not too long ago a former cam girl of hers was murdered. Unsurprisingly, the realization that someone threatened to publish her personal details turned my stomach.

I'm sitting here with my stomach turning, hoping I think of something to say or do next.

[softball]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

Dianna, I swear I can't win. I made a conscious decision to post intelligent, friendly posts to rhetorical...and that's what I got back. "So far so good," I thought to myself. "See, be nice - get nice."

But...Sabby. Sabby is one of those people. She always has been. She's always been nothing but nice to me. Intelligent, funny, witty, totally professional...a person can't help but love the woman. (I've even forgiven her for being so damned beautiful!)

It scares me that she's so damned vulnerable because of what she does for a living. There are a lot of clients of hers that can't separate reality from fantasy. Not too long ago a former cam girl of hers was murdered. Unsurprisingly, the realization that someone threatened to publish her personal details turned my stomach.

I'm sitting here with my stomach turning, hoping I think of something to say or do next.

I have made a pact to be nice to Sabby. However, I will say only one thing and I do not want to continue this because of said pact. Over the years Sabby has had many stalkers. More than any web girl that has ever posted on boards. It is an accusation she trots out regularly but it is so far from the truth as to be ludicrous. There are laws against stalking. It is illegal. If it were true, then charges should be laid. It will never happen, because it never happened. End of story. Sabby and I have a long and colourful history of locking horns that I think should end now. I hope this is my last word on this never ending topic.

[softball]

Originally Posted by Dianna Vesta

Get 'em!

You get em, DV. LOL.

[softball]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

Oh, please no. Not Sabby. Rhetorical, tell me that you didn't try and hurt Sabby.

This is usually the part where my icq lights up with a screaming "when are you going to fucking learn not to be so damned nice?!?!?!"

OK. I am telling you that.

[softball]

Originally Posted by Sabby

YOU threatened to post mine on this board before. You even posted the first letter. I dont even know how you found it out. I have never done any business with you.

You seem to know alot about me. I find that strange.

That's one of the reasons why I always thought you are a stalker.


Sabby

Sabby, everyone knew your freeking name. There are, at last count 26 letters in the alphabet.