I cannot stand some people...

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Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

The inherent problem with spanking is that it's too damned easy to fall back on. You start out with "I'm only going to spank for really big things that could harm them if they did it" then find yourself drifting into spanking for things that are better handled another way. I found myself doing that, and stopped spanking altogether.

I spanked my youngest stepdaughter once. I should probably preface this by saying when I married my ex he was a widower with 2 girls ages 5 and 9. At the time of this incident I had been a mom for about 2 months.
My ex husband and I had bought this fantastic oak dining room set at an auction and spent days stripping paint and refinishing it. 2 days after it's dry I wake up to a 5 year old sawing away at the table with a steak knife.

I grabbed the knife and gave her a few whacks on the bottom. Her ass turned bright red and I felt so guilty I never spanked her again.