Seriously, Fuck what you are looking for in a mate

[Anthony]

Originally posted by JoesHO1@Feb 22 2005, 08:30 AM
Hmmm, REAL good question, Anthony

I think it is hard in todays society to find the perfect mate, we now live in a disposable society.

As people evolve, and needs change, it is sometimes easier to just say ah fuck it it was a fun ride.

Or heaven forbid hard times befall a relationship and then it seems so many people are willing to find it easier to go out on their own again and re start .

I think that what a person looks for in a perfect mate now, may change drasticaly in 5, 6 , 10 yrs etc...

and familiarity always breeds complacantcy as well so I think the only way to know is to ride the ride and be true to yourself, as well as caring for the partners needs/wishes as well

almost like a party, it is not possible to tell if it was a success or not until it is over.

Excellent post Joe.

You always surprise me on how eloquent you can be. It's a good thing.