It's okay guys, I'm back from my vacation, post quality (and quantity) will go up again!

hehehe
I've come & gone from many a board, and there is always some sort of drama similar to this...I think the best way to handle it is just to laugh it up and then try to move on & learn & grow from it. Nobody's feelers need to get hurt!
Now I'm going back into my n00b corner where the free donuts & mugs & hats are...