I actually spoke with her yesterday for a long time and she really wants to quit doing coke, except every now and then when she's with me at a party or something like that (I think that is okay too by the way, as long as it is with me present and not large quantities). I think she just likes it a little too much. She did agree that it was time to loose the 'idiots' I referred to earlier, time will tell if she will actually manage to do so.
I did tell her that it would be silly to explain to people (among which are her parents) that I left her because I didn't like her doing coke. It was pretty much an eye opener for her as well.
Thanks for all the advise. I have to add though that she is not using drugs every day, but a couple times a week and not always lots of it. To me, that is more than I bargained for, hence my question on the board.
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