sabby,
Comparing you and your girls to her is like comparing the sad old woman who once appeared as "3rd Shepherd" in her high school play to a Multi-oscar winner.
You have probably douched more brains than she'll ever have. ;-)))
Such a shame...but there is some that can't be helped.
"Never give advice , because a fool won't take it and a wiseman don't need it."
But some nice people can still try.
