Once you get to the level of "fuck buddy", there is very little chance of ever going back to "full out love". You are both providing the other person with physical and emotional nourishment until the next good thing comes along. Even after that next good thing comes along, you might still be the "secret fuck buddy", although that is a harder job.
I often think that this is a stage in a relationship when both people have realised that they won't spend their lives together, but they still care and still want an intimate relationship, but one with no further destinations. You have arrived at "sex", and you are not going towards "married" ever.
Enjoy it while you can get it, don't invest too much of yourself in the relationship, knowing that there is little future, just as much of the present as you can handle.
Alex
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