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Originally posted by LadyLaw@Mar 3 2004, 05:18 PM
In the end, the only person you can change in a relationship is yourself. If a guy is thinking his wife should read a book to improve the marriage, the better course of action would be for him to buy books for himself, and work on his own shit.
Scanning a book for spousal goodies you might get from your wife and then giving her the book so she can work on "herself", is the kind of drive-by, self-help referral I would personally hate.
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Or even read/explore something together
But you're right - if you want a change in your relationship, buying the other one a book ain't gonna cut it. I would suspect that any changes brought about that route would be temporary
