Ok.. first things first. This isn't a newbie board. We'll still enjoy talking to ya and shooting the shit and you CAN learn here. But it's kinda like taking applied physics when you are just in your first class ort two of basic science.
If you want to learn about how to build traffic up I suggest two places. Both are excellent but take different approaches. Maybe you'll use both, maybe just one that seems more to your style but I suggest you first go to
Voltar's Newbie Webmaster Resource and introduce yourself to Voltar and ask for some help. He has a TON of stuff there for you and it will help you get on the right track. He basically already has a very extended lesson plan that will get you on the path to making money on the web in the adult market. You'll learn a ton there. Another place to check out is
Tom's Newbie Booster which is more of a post and learn as you go but also has a ton of helpful tips and tricks and such for you to learn. Both are excellent places for a newbie to learn the biz.
Now, don't forget my 10% kickback fee on all you earn for this advice!! :P