[Carrie]

The things you learn on Oprano these days aren't spelled out in clear How-To posts. You gotta learn to read between the lines.
For example, take a look at today's thread MikeAI put up about lawmakers thinking that porn these days is more offensive than it used to be.
There is a lot to be learned in that thread alone, but can you see it without it being clearly spelled out for you?

But at any time if you have a specific question, give it a shot and just ask straight-out. It can't hurt, and you'll probably get some replies.