Opti, the difference is, we women know a sweet guy when we find one. Even if Voodooman disagrees with me and CJ or any outspoken female, he is a gentleman.
I have had my disagreements with sweety VDM, but he has not allowed our differences to get out of hand.
Then we have people like Gonzo, who jumps from thread to thread, board to board, calling people names just for the hell of it. At least JR draws funny pictures, and Brad shows us fish pictures. JoeE posts legal documents and Sarettah does research and returns to argue his point.
Gonzo, get a life. If you hate me so much, then avoid my posts. Block me. Ignore me. You will sleep better at night. I will only give you indigestion.
