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Originally posted by Hooper@Jul 30 2003, 06:51 PM
my only point was that if you create an agreement to perform act x with somebody, you cant then turn around and scream that cancelling act x half way through the job is the same as the guy forcing act x on you in the beginning..
again, not saying it's ok to continue after a "no", just saying that rape is used to define a sex act that is forced from the beginning.
to me this is more akin to a breech of contract... sexual assault maybe... rape? no.
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this is how i feel exactly. i agree its wrong. i agree that a women should have the right to withdraw consent (which is the intent of the law) and i believe that in doing so, the male should stop asap.
but "rape" - i dont agree with that. especially so considering that its almost impossible to prove, has left no signs of physical abuse or forced intercourse, witnesses or other forensic evidence etc.
i also fail to see how getting tackled in the park, beaten and stripped naked and getting screwed in the ass in the most brutal way, is somehow on some level as two people having consensual sex and one of them saying at some point "i have changed my mind"