Actually domination does not always have to do with pain or embarassment. Most women dominate men every day. When a woman controls your orgasm she is dominating you. Ever wonder why sex with a mature woman is the hottest sex you have had? cause she knows how to control your orgasm. She makes you wait but doesnt let you loose interest. She will even frustrate you and take you to a height of orgasm that is beyond what you get every day.
Women who have this power keep their guys very happy. In real life these women never seem dominant... in sex play they are very dominant.
Now a liking for orgasm while in pain is a completely different kink... and a sweet one too if your man enough... okay I wont even go there... pain is not for everyone but I can tell you that orgasm while adrenalyn is flowing is sweet indeed... you will want to repeat if over and over... actually a submissive always has more bodily pleasure then a good dominant...fun... maybe not :P
A dominant gets his/her pleasure from giving the ultimate of pleasure... by doing things that are not necessarily easy and sometimes not comfortable but alot of times they are requested like humiliation... submissives into humilliation are again another breed... they want a connection... to prove themselves... all sorts of things...everyone wants something different...and infact... a good dominant figures out what the submissive gets off on and if its a match to what they like to do ....well its d/s heaven...
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