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Trev 09-16-2005 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by XxXotic
yes, I wouldn't agree :p

I wouldn't agree as well :okthumb:

MorganGrayson 09-16-2005 06:55 PM

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See, selena? I told you the "nutter line" was pretty long! :D

JoesHO 09-16-2005 07:02 PM

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what do you mean Morgan? is Saine spelt worng?

Trev 09-16-2005 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JoesHO1
what do you mean Morgan? is Saine spelt worng?

Dude you're an American, it's a given that you're a mental.

TheEnforcer 09-16-2005 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MorganGrayson
*smooches*
Work on that capitlization, spelling and punctuation thing and you *might* get my vote! :p


I've written in "board style" for so long now it's hard to concentrate on writing the "proper" way now.

TheEnforcer 09-16-2005 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by JoesHO1
I fully believe I am the most sane and rational person on this board......

wouldnt EVRYONE agree ?

Aren't you the guy who posted a video of himself dancing on the board?? :p

CuriousToyBoy 09-16-2005 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Anthony
Newton is in the position I was in when I ran Netpond.

It is thankless job. Decisions have to be made, and adhered too. Coming off as an asshole happens quite frequently.

Very, very true. In fact BEING an asshole at times is a pre-requisite I would suggest.

Being between a rock and a hard place is not at all comfortable.

2c

Trev 09-16-2005 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by TheEnforcer
Aren't you the guy who posted a video of himself dancing on the board?? :p

No! He's the guy that Boldy posted a video of him dancing, on the board.

Keep up or get left behind. :p

CuriousToyBoy 09-16-2005 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Newton
Thanks Anthony .. ;) as the saying goes ...you can't please all of the people all of the time ;)

Nick, onwards and upwards mate ;)

I think we may all be missing an IMPORTANT point .....

The length of this thread, the alternate attitudes and viewpoints, the obvious passion towards the topic/s of many of those posting and the mere fact that people are taking time to consider their responses and not just posting crap, the time spread from when this thread started to the present and the fact that one seems drawn to reading EVERY response, is fully indicative of characteristics that I LOVE about this place.

Conflict is not bad unless people want to make it that way.

POSITIVE conflict (involving open and honest expressions of one's feeling) is a hallmark of evolution.

This is my favorite thread here in a LONG time.

2c

JoesHO 09-16-2005 07:42 PM

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Dog bollocks I say

Newton 09-16-2005 07:42 PM

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Joe is the bad boy of disco .. :D

cj 09-16-2005 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Nickatilynx
CJ,
I asked you for a favour , to bear with me for old times sake , and if it jizbiz turned out to be a looney or didn't work out, I'd publicly execute him.

Why? Because he asked me to give him one more chance.

I was willing to , others were willing too,I deleted a couple of threads where basically I ripped into him.

Instead you spat the dummy and freaked out...like you did a year ago , the year before that..oh and the year before that ...and flounced off.

I still publicly executed jizbiz, when ,as most of us suspected , he turned out to be a looney.

no, you asked me to do and say specific things in this board, that were the opposite of beneficial to me, and then you had your new whipping boy tell me all about what makes a successful board & that I was holding this place back.

Its your choice if you choose to give a moron a TENTH chance, why should I have had to make a stupid move too, just because you did? I did you a favor when you asked by holding back the first 9 times, the tenth was your call.

As for spitting the dummy & freaking out, you have to care about something to spit & freak ... I stopped caring about this place the first (and only) other time I left - when serge told me I wasn't family. Once you started censoring people & putting idiots in charge, it was a no brainer - stop wasting time here.

In the long run, I owe you a big thank you - the time I used to spend here is now spent working on my tan - much more beneficial for me ;-)

cj 09-16-2005 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by TheEnforcer
All I know is I miss cj :( and want her back here!! :okthumb:

I'm very happy that she really seems to be enjoying life now, as she most assuredly deserves to, I just hope that she can also again enjoy it here as well! :)

I won't be coming back babe, except to say hi occasionally, but I'm always only an email away!! carlajayne at gmail dot com - don't be a stranger! miss you heaps ;-)


Newton, I wish you the best of luck with everything. I truly hope you learn to appreciate when you have made a mistake, and when your theories are wrong. It makes life so much easier ... and mistakes so much shorter & less painful. A closed mind is impossible to communicate with, and the new CJ doesn't beat her head against brick walls. ;-)

To quote my papa "He with most time to spare wins piss" ... use it well grasshopper!

Nickatilynx 09-16-2005 08:52 PM

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I say "cut the guy a break and give him a chance" ,and thats telling you to do something that "were the opposite of beneficial to me"

Ah well :) Fair enough .

Enjoy your tan. Don't over do it :)

selena 09-16-2005 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by MorganGrayson
selena...there is a *line* for "nutter position"!!! I do believe we have a couple of openings in "sane and rational," though. :)


I'm afraid I don't even come close to having the qualifications for that position. ;)

sarettah 09-16-2005 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy
I think we may all be missing an IMPORTANT point .....

The length of this thread, the alternate attitudes and viewpoints, the obvious passion towards the topic/s of many of those posting and the mere fact that people are taking time to consider their responses and not just posting crap, the time spread from when this thread started to the present and the fact that one seems drawn to reading EVERY response, is fully indicative of characteristics that I LOVE about this place.

Conflict is not bad unless people want to make it that way.

POSITIVE conflict (involving open and honest expressions of one's feeling) is a hallmark of evolution.

This is my favorite thread here in a LONG time.

2c


Group hug time ?? :blink:




.

Newton 09-16-2005 09:36 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy
I think we may all be missing an IMPORTANT point .....

The length of this thread, the alternate attitudes and viewpoints, the obvious passion towards the topic/s of many of those posting and the mere fact that people are taking time to consider their responses and not just posting crap, the time spread from when this thread started to the present and the fact that one seems drawn to reading EVERY response, is fully indicative of characteristics that I LOVE about this place.

Conflict is not bad unless people want to make it that way.

POSITIVE conflict (involving open and honest expressions of one's feeling) is a hallmark of evolution.

This is my favorite thread here in a LONG time.

2c

What an absolutely delightful post ;) Oprano thanks you and I thank you CTB ;)

Newton 09-16-2005 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cj
Newton, I wish you the best of luck with everything. I truly hope you learn to appreciate when you have made a mistake, and when your theories are wrong. It makes life so much easier ... and mistakes so much shorter & less painful. A closed mind is impossible to communicate with, and the new CJ doesn't beat her head against brick walls. ;-)

To quote my papa "He with most time to spare wins piss" ... use it well grasshopper!

Thank you very much for your kind words and I wish you the same. If and when I do err, I will at least have enough humility and honesty to stand up and admit it. I guess everyone sticks to their principles and I certainly wouldn't have it any other way. You can keep the piss, it doesnt interest me in the slightest.

CuriousToyBoy 09-16-2005 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by sarettah
Group hug time ?? :blink:




.

I do individual hugs where appropriate and deserved - I don't do group hugs, unless it's foreplay, and and I WILL be getting my cock sucked.

;-)

CuriousToyBoy 09-16-2005 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Newton
What an absolutely delightful post ;) Oprano thanks you and I thank you CTB ;)

Errrrr. One should never be thanked for stating fact, but accepted graciously all the same.

;-)

Nickatilynx 09-17-2005 12:00 AM

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the board is still too fucking nice!!!!

sarettah 09-17-2005 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy
I don't do group hugs, unless it's foreplay, and and I WILL be getting my cock sucked.

So, you do like being between a rock and a hard place. :rolleyes:


.

Carrie 09-17-2005 01:10 AM

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Sorry to break the turn into the niceness farm the thread's taken, but want to make a few observations. Take 'em or leave 'em.

I hope the board does not go to pay to post. The discussion here is usually intelligent and above-par, even when just joking around. Paying folks to post brings in the stupidity crowd who fill the board with useless babble. (Not saying there's isn't a good share of useless babble here, but it's a different level of babble - hard to explain.)

The mention of a "hired gun" made me think not of paid mods steering conversations, but mods being encouraged to make and use fake names to troll the boards and get people reacting to dumbass statements. A huge pasttime over at GFY and encouraged at certain other places. (Or at least was at one point.) I hope this isn't the case either, as it drives away the veterans and intelligent posters and again, draws the stupidity crowd.

That being said, I know that both of these methods increase pageviews, which drives the advertising, which is the bottom line for the board. It's a fine line between quantity and quality - I hope in all of the changes you guys are planning, you're leaning on the side of quality. I'd hate to see this board become what Netpond has become, and y'all know how much I love Netpond and Meat and Aga. Well, what Netpond's board used to be, anyway.

Just try not to kill the quality while going for the increase in pageviews, eh? That's all we as members can hope for.

And no matter how many times I tried to re-write this, I just couldn't get my point across well enough and explain what I'm trying to convey - so if you get pissed at anything I've said, please know that I didn't mean for it to piss anyone off. Just disappointed at what a place I used to love has become and don't want to see it happen again over here. Hoping it won't.

cj 09-17-2005 01:31 AM

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ya know the BIGGEST problem with this place?

EVERYONE IS TOO FUCKING FAR AWAY!!!

Otherwise, you could all drop by and join us on our deck, enjoying the ocean, good friends, good food, good times ..... it puts a whole new perspective on what's important.

What will live with me from this place is priceless - some of the best memories and friendships I will ever hope to have, that will last me through my lifetime. All the rest is just bullshit to fill the time.

cheers everyone ;-)

Carrie 09-17-2005 01:50 AM

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Cheers, CJ. Enjoy that beautiful beach and good luck in whatever you're working on these days. Knowing you, whatever 12 things you're working on these days. :p

Hell Puppy 09-17-2005 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Carrie
Sorry to break the turn into the niceness farm the thread's taken, but want to make a few observations. Take 'em or leave 'em.

I hope the board does not go to pay to post. The discussion here is usually intelligent and above-par, even when just joking around. Paying folks to post brings in the stupidity crowd who fill the board with useless babble. (Not saying there's isn't a good share of useless babble here, but it's a different level of babble - hard to explain.)

The mention of a "hired gun" made me think not of paid mods steering conversations, but mods being encouraged to make and use fake names to troll the boards and get people reacting to dumbass statements. A huge pasttime over at GFY and encouraged at certain other places. (Or at least was at one point.) I hope this isn't the case either, as it drives away the veterans and intelligent posters and again, draws the stupidity crowd.

That being said, I know that both of these methods increase pageviews, which drives the advertising, which is the bottom line for the board. It's a fine line between quantity and quality - I hope in all of the changes you guys are planning, you're leaning on the side of quality. I'd hate to see this board become what Netpond has become, and y'all know how much I love Netpond and Meat and Aga. Well, what Netpond's board used to be, anyway.

Just try not to kill the quality while going for the increase in pageviews, eh? That's all we as members can hope for.

And no matter how many times I tried to re-write this, I just couldn't get my point across well enough and explain what I'm trying to convey - so if you get pissed at anything I've said, please know that I didn't mean for it to piss anyone off. Just disappointed at what a place I used to love has become and don't want to see it happen again over here. Hoping it won't.


Uh oh, I agree with Carrie.

It is the nature of this industry to take short cuts, even with each other. In the case of building a board, there's a temptation to want to inflate posts and traffic. This is really what I meant by "hired help"....a better term might be "incented posters".

Bottom line, whenever you're doing something where people are posting for the sake of adding posts, the quality is gonna go down. Post quality is at it's highest when people only post when they actually have something to say. There's probably a happy medium somewhere inbetween.

But the good news is that if you start paying for posts, I'm sure MasterP will come back.

Anthony 09-17-2005 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by sarettah
So, you do like being between a rock and a hard place. :rolleyes:


.

Word of advice. CTB would break you in half.

Giving you a hug.

I believe his words that sent shivers down my spine were... "In Jail, I'm your worst fucking nightmare."

I couldn't live with all that goddamn hugging.

:)

SykkBoy 09-17-2005 06:54 AM

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I've kind of avoided this thread because I've come to admire Newton and his mind and we've even talked some business and of course have a long history with CJ and felt weird.

CJ is one of the people I admire most in this industry and one of my favorite people in general. I don't always agree with her but know she always does things as she feels she must and doesn't back down.

CJ, I've been threatening to make it out that way for 7 years now and am really close to making it finally happen. So, make sure to have plenty of green tea and sexy women with hot aussie accents on standby.

Nick, sorry to drag this thread back to nice....I'll try to be a bit more of a cock...maybe if my soon to be ex-wife starts posting, we can get a nice war of "fuck yous" going ;)

Nickatilynx 09-17-2005 11:22 AM

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The board will build slowly.

Nice little giveaways.

No nickel/dime/quarter per post.

Trev 09-17-2005 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Nickatilynx
The board will build slowly.

Nice little giveaways.

No nickel/dime/quarter per post.

Should I also add that they'll be awarded by quality and not quantity of posts? :)

Nickatilynx 09-17-2005 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Trev
Should I also add that they'll be awarded by quality and not quantity of posts? :)

You just did! :)

Trev 09-17-2005 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Nickatilynx
You just did! :)

Then that's another job done ;)

JoesHO 09-17-2005 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Trev
Should I also add that they'll be awarded by quality and not quantity of posts? :)


Oh great so in other words I AM FUCKED

what is option B to earn points?

Trev 09-17-2005 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JoesHO1
Oh great so in other words I AM FUCKED

what is option B to earn points?

Be very nice to the guys with access to the counter ;)

JoesHO 09-17-2005 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Trev
Be very nice to the guys with access to the counter ;)

But those guys are british = homos = poofta boots = hershyhighway bradbury turdpkie lovers

I suppose I could send them some roses or a little silk rode to wear around the house, will that score me some points? :D

Trev 09-17-2005 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JoesHO1
But those guys are british = homos = poofta boots = hershyhighway bradbury turdpkie lovers

I suppose I could send them some roses or a little silk rode to wear around the house, will that score me some points? :D

. :shithead:

I guess not! :p

Nickatilynx 09-17-2005 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Trev
. :shithead:

I guess not! :p

ahahahahahahahahahaha SWEEET! lol

JR 09-17-2005 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Trev
. :shithead:

I guess not! :p

i might be mistaken, but did you just become "Opranos gay British friend"

TheEnforcer 09-17-2005 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by cj
ya know the BIGGEST problem with this place?

EVERYONE IS TOO FUCKING FAR AWAY!!!

Otherwise, you could all drop by and join us on our deck, enjoying the ocean, good friends, good food, good times ..... it puts a whole new perspective on what's important.

What will live with me from this place is priceless - some of the best memories and friendships I will ever hope to have, that will last me through my lifetime. All the rest is just bullshit to fill the time.

cheers everyone ;-)

Sounds like a load of fun dear! Wish we could be there on the beach with you. I'd just have to make sure someone would stay behind with me when everyone else decided to go swimming!! :)

MorganGrayson 09-17-2005 08:55 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by JoesHO1
But those guys are british = homos = poofta boots = hershyhighway bradbury turdpkie lovers

I suppose I could send them some roses or a little silk rode to wear around the house, will that score me some points? :D

Actually, Joe, send *me* the roses and silk and I'll sexually gratify Trev, and you'll be up to your tushie in points. :yowsa:


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