I have actually stopped promoting the "extreme" stuff on cam... I still do it if requested but I use small toys unless pushed farther...
My clients are now about half and half now... the "sugar daddy" type who is appalled by weird shit and the hardcore extreme guys who love it.
I'm still just as busy.
And I stopped doing the girlgirl acts... I'm only creating more competition with myself as a solo act.
Sabby