Serge, are you asking me because I appear to be bitter, despondent, dissatisfied, distrustful, fussy, immature, inhibited, prejudiced, and sulky?
The problem I have is that I find sex much more enjoyable when it is a one-night stand, or with someone I don't particularly like. Those I love have not been the best lovers in the world. The most intense and best orgasms are usually oral or with a vibrator. I hope that most women who have a wonderful sexlife are happy, contented, good-natured, insightful, self-confident, independent, realistic, strong, capable, and understanding
Don't forget, the bitchy bi-polar confucy is a board personality who sounds like she needs to be fucked.
Look around. Do Carrie, Kimmy, Peaches, CJ, and the rest appear to be happy and content? Think not!