Why is it, my past always haunts me? Damn Women!

[Anthony]

So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

[Almighty Colin]

Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.

[Winetalk.com]

Tony,
only date those who do lots of red
;)

[BillPMB]

hmmm.

Dancer, Paid, Bar, Attractive.

Looks like the human resources dept at the place is doing a great job! Sending people home drunk and sexually frustrated is what brings you back.

Never date women from bars, unless you own the bar. :)

Probably a much better selection at your local gym. Find a woman that can bench as much as you and marry her! :rokk:

[Nickatilynx]

Tonyland is an awesome place though.

I enjoyed having a vacation home there for quite a while ;-))))

[Anthony]

My fucking head hurts. I'm not a big drinker, so killing a bottle of Grey Goose for me is alot.

Bill, I go to the gym like it's my religon. I'll post some pics when I get back from the gym when my camera is charged. When I'm at the gym, I don't look around, I don't socialize, I'm in there to move weight. One of the reasons I joined World's versus Boca Athletic Club was the eye candy factor. I didn't want the distraction. I worked out with my friend Adam at the Boca AC all last week. The intensity just wasn't there cause I kept staring at hotties. :) Hammer military press, tuesday was my best so I thought at 120lbs each hand for reps, I did 140 each side for 7 reps last night back at Worlds.

I find myself stronger at 36 versus 28 when I first started as a webmaster. It's old man strengnth kicking in.

Back to the club thing... I should know better. I'm not looking for a long term commitment! :) I'm going to be prepared next week. LOL

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
Colin,

Birds of a feather flock together. Consider my closest buds in this biz. :)

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 13 2005, 12:37 PM
Colin,

Birds of a feather flock together. Consider my closest buds in this biz. :)
Yup. :okthumb:

[grimm]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.

[TheEnforcer]

That first post has a familiar feel and ring to it!! Hahaha! Did you do any drunk dialing as well last night Ant? Sykk gets that a bunch from me! :P I also do drunk ICQing.. just ask Lisa and CJ!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 13 2005, 01:02 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 13 2005, 01:02 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-)

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by TheEnforcer@Feb 13 2005, 01:06 PM
I also do drunk ICQing
:ph34r:

[grimm]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin+Feb 13 2005, 10:07 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Almighty Colin @ Feb 13 2005, 10:07 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 01:02 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-) [/b][/quote]
work in progress, i guess:)

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 13 2005, 01:14 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 13 2005, 01:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 10:07 AM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 01:02 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-)
work in progress, i guess:) [/b][/quote]
Let me know if you reach the promised land!

[grimm]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin+Feb 13 2005, 10:15 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Almighty Colin @ Feb 13 2005, 10:15 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 01:14 PM
Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 10:07 AM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 01:02 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-)
work in progress, i guess:)
Let me know if you reach the promised land! [/b][/quote]
you'll be the first to know;)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Drawn to them. Yeah especially if they are blonde, hawt, and have a nice rack.

[grimm]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 13 2005, 10:55 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 13 2005, 10:55 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Drawn to them. Yeah especially if they are blonde, hawt, and have a nice rack. [/b][/quote]
different descriptions, same gist;)

[cj]

LMFAO!!!!

Anthony said huggles!!!!!!!!

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA


On a serious note, good fucking on you for walking away from what you knew could only turn ugly. For someone who just polished off a bottle of alcohol you sure did stick to your commitments to yourself ... so instead of beating yourself up over losing someone messed up that would only have ended in drama anyway, pat yourself on the back for putting yourself first and taking care of you.

:okthumb: :okthumb:

[*KK*]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Don't think this only applies to men...

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
Kimmy you are absolutely correct.

Big hugs sweets.

[grimm]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
definitely, works both ways.

[Peaches]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
I was thinking the same thing reading this thread :awinky:

[JoesHO]

Just dick whip em all Anthony ( they like it ) LOL

[*KK*]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 13 2005, 07:51 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 13 2005, 07:51 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men...
definitely, works both ways. [/b][/quote]
At this point a chisel and a steady hand would be nice.

[grimm]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 13 2005, 10:14 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 13 2005, 10:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 07:51 PM
Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 13 2005, 07:06 PM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men...
definitely, works both ways.
At this point a chisel and a steady hand would be nice. [/b][/quote]
:P

[grimm]

Originally posted by Peaches+Feb 13 2005, 08:23 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Peaches @ Feb 13 2005, 08:23 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men...
I was thinking the same thing reading this thread :awinky: [/b][/quote]
why is it that women like us unstable types :yowsa:

[Almighty Colin]

If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 14 2005, 01:27 AM
If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.
I think you may be right.

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 14 2005, 09:57 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 14 2005, 09:57 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 14 2005, 01:27 AM
If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.
I think you may be right. [/b][/quote]
I think I'm the only person in my entire company who is not married. Someone is making good hiring decisions. Nice, stable normal people ;-)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Almighty Colin+Feb 14 2005, 07:01 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Almighty Colin @ Feb 14 2005, 07:01 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 14 2005, 09:57 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 14 2005, 01:27 AM
If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.
I think you may be right.
I think I'm the only person in my entire company who is not married. Someone is making good hiring decisions. Nice, stable normal people ;-) [/b][/quote]
When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday.

[Almighty Colin]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 14 2005, 11:25 AM

When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday.
We are a lot alike.

[*KK*]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 14 2005, 08:25 AM
When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday.
Funny, I average around 18 months to 2 years normally. There are exceptions that prove how stupid I can be ;)

[Anthony]

I'm more for the rebound factor than anything else with waiting.

[grimm]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 14 2005, 10:10 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 14 2005, 10:10 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 14 2005, 08:25 AM
When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday.
Funny, I average around 18 months to 2 years normally. There are exceptions that prove how stupid I can be ;) [/b][/quote]
thats my problem too. the most fucked up relationships ive been in are the ones that last the longest.

[Anthony]

Though every once in awhile, I meet someone who makes me forget my rule.

[TheEnforcer]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 14 2005, 01:21 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 14 2005, 01:21 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 13 2005, 08:23 PM
Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
Originally posted by grimm@Feb 13 2005, 10:02 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 13 2005, 03:05 AM
Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.
ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.
Don't think this only applies to men...
I was thinking the same thing reading this thread :awinky:
why is it that women like us unstable types :yowsa: [/b][/quote]
Here's your answer grimm!!

http://www.oprano.com/msgboard/index.php?act=ST&f=1&t=16597

[TheEnforcer]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 14 2005, 11:25 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 14 2005, 11:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Almighty Colin@Feb 14 2005, 07:01 AM
Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 14 2005, 09:57 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Almighty Colin@Feb 14 2005, 01:27 AM
If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.
I think you may be right.
I think I'm the only person in my entire company who is not married. Someone is making good hiring decisions. Nice, stable normal people ;-)
When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday. [/b][/quote]
I've got you beat. Been 4 years already and still going.

:blink: :huh:

[Peaches]

Geeze, you guys need to learn you can go on dates w/o having to start picking out china patterns! :P

I guess because I won't go to the movies or eat by myself, I've always dated almost immediately after a breakup. Having a relationship is a completely different matter, but if someone asks me out, 99 times out of 100 I'm going...well, I say that, as I've gotten older that's dropping to about 75 times out of 100 - I can spot the boring ones earlier now :okthumb:

[*KK*]

Originally posted by grimm@Feb 14 2005, 10:21 AM
thats my problem too. the most fucked up relationships ive been in are the ones that last the longest.
I totally agree with you there, but that's my average single time between the fucked up fools ;)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 14 2005, 01:05 PM
Geeze, you guys need to learn you can go on dates w/o having to start picking out china patterns! :P

I guess because I won't go to the movies or eat by myself, I've always dated almost immediately after a breakup. Having a relationship is a completely different matter, but if someone asks me out, 99 times out of 100 I'm going...well, I say that, as I've gotten older that's dropping to about 75 times out of 100 - I can spot the boring ones earlier now :okthumb:
It's kinda weird. While all my friends through the years, have been the wild swinging commitment phobic types, I have always been the one in long term relationships.

For once, I'd like to meet a girl who I'm interested in, and not automatically think, "Do I have a future with this person" and just enjoy dating.

[Anthony]

This just came to me after I hit the post button...

I guess I'm too busy looking for "The One".

:(

[grimm]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 14 2005, 01:36 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 14 2005, 01:36 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-grimm@Feb 14 2005, 10:21 AM
thats my problem too. the most fucked up relationships ive been in are the ones that last the longest.
I totally agree with you there, but that's my average single time between the fucked up fools ;) [/b][/quote]
its the ones in between that work out the best for all parties involved. Im good in small doses;)

[Anthony]

I went out again down to a club in my city.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I saw girls that I thought were attractive, but the majority were fat drunk ones.

My friends girl was like, you have your pick of any drunk girl here, I couldn't be bothered. Alot of it was the one drink I took thinking it may have affected my good judgement.

I'm trying this rewiring thingy of yours Grimm. Going out on a double date getting setup on wednesday. I'm attempting to meet women outside a nightclub.

[DaddysGirl]

"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:

[Anthony]

Originally posted by DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
I almost threw up after reading that.

:)

[Peaches]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 15 2005, 11:35 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 15 2005, 11:35 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
I almost threw up after reading that.

:) [/b][/quote]
Me too and I'm a chick! :barfon:

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Peaches+Feb 15 2005, 07:40 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Peaches @ Feb 15 2005, 07:40 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 11:35 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
I almost threw up after reading that.

:)
Me too and I'm a chick! :barfon: [/b][/quote]
You don't have to work with her.

[*KK*]

Originally posted by DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 15 2005, 12:24 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 15 2005, 12:24 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol [/b][/quote]
Shut up about my caridad!

[*KK*]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 15 2005, 12:49 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 15 2005, 12:49 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 15 2005, 12:24 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol
Shut up about my caridad! [/b][/quote]
Hahhaa, katydid or cicada or maybe even crawdad... what the hell is a caridad?

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 15 2005, 01:56 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 15 2005, 01:56 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 12:49 PM
Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 15 2005, 12:24 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol
Shut up about my caridad!
Hahhaa, katydid or cicada or maybe even crawdad... what the hell is a caridad? [/b][/quote]
It's spanish for butterfly. :)

[grimm]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 05:56 AM
I went out again down to a club in my city.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I saw girls that I thought were attractive, but the majority were fat drunk ones.

My friends girl was like, you have your pick of any drunk girl here, I couldn't be bothered. Alot of it was the one drink I took thinking it may have affected my good judgement.

I'm trying this rewiring thingy of yours Grimm. Going out on a double date getting setup on wednesday. I'm attempting to meet women outside a nightclub.
let me know how it works.. don't overthink it, figure out what is important to YOU and make it your first priority to fix whatever it is in your thinking or life that is making it hard to find your own happiness. once you can be at peace with yourself and the place you are in, the whole thing should get a bit easier. Understanding the self seems to be imperative for real happiness. Im working on it;) Im sure you've encountered similar thinking in discipline training in martial arts.. see if it translates, you never know.


double date seems to be a good place to start dating. less stress.. common element, no pressure for conversations.


If not you can always switch teams, homo:)

[grimm]

anthony.. take your kids to a park. you work hard for them, let them work for you LOL. :)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 15 2005, 05:05 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 15 2005, 05:05 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 05:56 AM
I went out again down to a club in my city.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I saw girls that I thought were attractive, but the majority were fat drunk ones.

My friends girl was like, you have your pick of any drunk girl here, I couldn't be bothered. Alot of it was the one drink I took thinking it may have affected my good judgement.

I'm trying this rewiring thingy of yours Grimm. Going out on a double date getting setup on wednesday. I'm attempting to meet women outside a nightclub.
let me know how it works.. don't overthink it, figure out what is important to YOU and make it your first priority to fix whatever it is in your thinking or life that is making it hard to find your own happiness. once you can be at peace with yourself and the place you are in, the whole thing should get a bit easier. Understanding the self seems to be imperative for real happiness. Im working on it;) Im sure you've encountered similar thinking in discipline training in martial arts.. see if it translates, you never know.


double date seems to be a good place to start dating. less stress.. common element, no pressure for conversations.


If not you can always switch teams, homo:) [/b][/quote]
Thanks Bro, I appreciate the good words. It was just easier to do it the other way, I always attract the wrong woman. Nick knows me best out of anyone in the world, and vice versa, he would tell you it's something in my stink or whatever. It never fails. LOL

I'm looking foward to weds, it's all been setup. I'll be my usual charming self. Now, where did I put my teeth whitening kit?

My kids will be here for the summer, twins get alot of attention. :)

[grimm]

twins are like a pale full of kittens, gold:)

[druid]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 13 2005, 02:35 AM
So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

hehe anthony you got various options...
1: go date a german heavy-metal girl... :rokk:http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/zottelmosh.gif they don't do coke, they just drink alot, i really mean a lot of beer

2: or do it like me, loosing about 80 pounds in 1 year making me look like i got some really bad illness :bdance: (compared to what i looked like, remember jabba the hutt from star wars?)

3: Organize some e-mail adresses and spam some chicks haha, wonder what the conversion rate will be :inlove:

4: My favorite: GO EGOSEXUAL!http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/sex0029.gif

anyways, good luck anthony

http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/hot.gif

[*KK*]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 04:19 PM
It's spanish for butterfly. :)
Great, the AZN is mouthing me in Spanish ;)

grimmster, taking his kids to the park is great for the kids, but I don't know too many single chicks (especially the young, hot and without kids of their own kind) that want to deal with that. Leykis works both ways ;)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by druid+Feb 16 2005, 12:14 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (druid @ Feb 16 2005, 12:14 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 13 2005, 02:35 AM
So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

hehe anthony you got various options...
1: go date a german heavy-metal girl... :rokk:http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/zottelmosh.gif they don't do coke, they just drink alot, i really mean a lot of beer

2: or do it like me, loosing about 80 pounds in 1 year making me look like i got some really bad illness :bdance: (compared to what i looked like, remember jabba the hutt from star wars?)

3: Organize some e-mail adresses and spam some chicks haha, wonder what the conversion rate will be :inlove:

4: My favorite: GO EGOSEXUAL!http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/sex0029.gif

anyways, good luck anthony

http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/hot.gif [/b][/quote]
Druid,

You kill me! Nice list. LMFAO!

I'm kinda doing number 2. Instead of loosing the weight though, I'm gaining. 12lbs so far. Think Brick shithouse. :)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 16 2005, 04:10 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 16 2005, 04:10 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 04:19 PM
It's spanish for butterfly. :)
Great, the AZN is mouthing me in Spanish ;)

grimmster, taking his kids to the park is great for the kids, but I don't know too many single chicks (especially the young, hot and without kids of their own kind) that want to deal with that. Leykis works both ways ;) [/b][/quote]
O yea chica!

What? Women don't love single fathers who dote on his kids?

It shows commitment, love, and a whole bunch of other things I can't think of cause I just came from the gym and dying right now!

[grimm]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 16 2005, 04:10 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 16 2005, 04:10 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 04:19 PM
It's spanish for butterfly. :)
Great, the AZN is mouthing me in Spanish ;)

grimmster, taking his kids to the park is great for the kids, but I don't know too many single chicks (especially the young, hot and without kids of their own kind) that want to deal with that. Leykis works both ways ;) [/b][/quote]
heh well it depends on the what the wants and needs of the girl are. Twins are an easy icebreaker, and she can always leave in the morning before they wake up;)

[grimm]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 16 2005, 05:36 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 16 2005, 05:36 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by druid@Feb 16 2005, 12:14 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 13 2005, 02:35 AM
So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

hehe anthony you got various options...
1: go date a german heavy-metal girl... :rokk:http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/zottelmosh.gif they don't do coke, they just drink alot, i really mean a lot of beer

2: or do it like me, loosing about 80 pounds in 1 year making me look like i got some really bad illness :bdance: (compared to what i looked like, remember jabba the hutt from star wars?)

3: Organize some e-mail adresses and spam some chicks haha, wonder what the conversion rate will be :inlove:

4: My favorite: GO EGOSEXUAL!http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/sex0029.gif

anyways, good luck anthony

http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/hot.gif
Druid,

You kill me! Nice list. LMFAO!

I'm kinda doing number 2. Instead of loosing the weight though, I'm gaining. 12lbs so far. Think Brick shithouse. :) [/b][/quote]
gotta build the machine to burn the fat. fuel to the fire:)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 16 2005, 08:52 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 16 2005, 08:52 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 05:36 AM
Originally posted by druid@Feb 16 2005, 12:14 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 13 2005, 02:35 AM
So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

hehe anthony you got various options...
1: go date a german heavy-metal girl... :rokk:http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/zottelmosh.gif they don't do coke, they just drink alot, i really mean a lot of beer

2: or do it like me, loosing about 80 pounds in 1 year making me look like i got some really bad illness :bdance: (compared to what i looked like, remember jabba the hutt from star wars?)

3: Organize some e-mail adresses and spam some chicks haha, wonder what the conversion rate will be :inlove:

4: My favorite: GO EGOSEXUAL!http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/sex0029.gif

anyways, good luck anthony

http://www.metalflirt.de/irc/images/hot.gif
Druid,

You kill me! Nice list. LMFAO!

I'm kinda doing number 2. Instead of loosing the weight though, I'm gaining. 12lbs so far. Think Brick shithouse. :)
gotta build the machine to burn the fat. fuel to the fire:) [/b][/quote]
Oh, I"m building the machine alright.

I look better now than I did when I first started webmastering. If anyone remembers that phonto I had in the Netpond Album way back when.

[druid]

You mean on c.o.n.d.o.m....

shit, i'm so long in this business, times flying by and my pockets are quite empty :/ i must have been doing something wrong....

geez....

ANYONE who needs design, i will hammer out a full paysite including a Splash, a long tourpage and a join page for $800, rebate on mass orders :P examples:

http://www.lunetics.com/design/new/BustyAmateurBoobs/
http://www.puredirtygirls.com/en/splash.php
http://www.wepee.com/en/splash.php


well i know it ain't not cheap as some russiand designer... that cause i don't live in russia :-) you get what you pay for :-)

contact me mb@lunetics.com
MSN: derherrdruid@hotmail.com
icq: 5999431

sorry anthony for interrupting your love and relationship thread with my spam, just had this inner feeling i HAVE TO offer myself now :-)

[*KK*]

Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 05:37 AM
O yea chica!

What? Women don't love single fathers who dote on his kids?

It shows commitment, love, and a whole bunch of other things I can't think of cause I just came from the gym and dying right now!
My single, no kids girlfriends say it looks like a man is looking for a mother for his kids. There are a few that don't look at it that way, but I just had a convo the night before last with one of them and that was exactly how she put it.

Don't take it personally ;)

In this day and age, it's rare to find anyone who doesn't have a kid or two stashed somewhere that's single and over 35.

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*+Feb 16 2005, 12:14 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (*KK* @ Feb 16 2005, 12:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 05:37 AM
O yea chica!

What? Women don't love single fathers who dote on his kids?

It shows commitment, love, and a whole bunch of other things I can't think of cause I just came from the gym and dying right now!
My single, no kids girlfriends say it looks like a man is looking for a mother for his kids. There are a few that don't look at it that way, but I just had a convo the night before last with one of them and that was exactly how she put it.

Don't take it personally ;)

In this day and age, it's rare to find anyone who doesn't have a kid or two stashed somewhere that's single and over 35. [/b][/quote]
Nah, my kids already have a great mom.

I'm just using them for bait. LOL

[*KK*]

Get a puppy.

[Vick]

Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 16 2005, 03:14 PM
In this day and age, it's rare to find anyone who doesn't have a kid or two stashed somewhere that's single and over 35.
Hell of a time to find out I was rare until 39 <_<

[*KK*]

Originally posted by Vick+Feb 16 2005, 12:21 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Vick @ Feb 16 2005, 12:21 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-*KK*@Feb 16 2005, 03:14 PM
In this day and age, it's rare to find anyone who doesn't have a kid or two stashed somewhere that's single and over 35.
Hell of a time to find out I was rare until 39 <_< [/b][/quote]
Sadly enough, you're a statistic now. Welcome to the club :)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by *KK*@Feb 16 2005, 12:21 PM
Get a puppy.
All joking aside, time spent with my kids are time precious.

I don't get to see them much, so they get spoiled, to a limit of course.

Using them for my dating purposes is the furthest from my mind.

[Vick]

I could/would never use my son as girl bait

Wouldn't work anyway

He's way too cute, collects kisses, flatters ("you're my specal girlfriend") and is not above touching or pointing at woman's breasts (not something I've encouraged)

Haven't figured out if the breast thing is because he doesn't know that's not acceptable in public or because he knows he can get away with it

He'd end up with the girl and I'd end up paying for the date

[DaddysGirl]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 15 2005, 10:35 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 15 2005, 10:35 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
I almost threw up after reading that.

:) [/b][/quote]
was just tryin to be sympathetic.... <_<

[Peaches]

I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.

[Anthony]

Originally posted by DaddysGirl+Feb 16 2005, 01:16 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DaddysGirl @ Feb 16 2005, 01:16 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 10:35 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-DaddysGirl@Feb 15 2005, 06:56 AM
"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:
I almost threw up after reading that.

:)
was just tryin to be sympathetic.... <_< [/b][/quote]
I got the point. :)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
Why would you piss anyone off Sweets? It's understandable. :)

I've dated women who said the same thing. I guess I'm just too good to pass up.

Or rather, they really wanted that house.

[Nickatilynx]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 16 2005, 01:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 16 2005, 01:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
Why would you piss anyone off Sweets? It's understandable. :)

I've dated women who said the same thing. I guess I'm just too good to pass up.

Or rather, they really wanted that house. [/b][/quote]
Tony's wives were Excellent housekeepers!!!!


They always kept the house :)

Women find me irristable to...I think its my fashion sense :)

http://www.whitcon.net/JON1.jpg

[Peaches]

O...M...G... :P

[Nickatilynx]

Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 02:12 PM
O...M...G... :P
What!!!!!!

Everyone will be dressing like that in 2006 :)

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Nickatilynx+Feb 16 2005, 02:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Nickatilynx @ Feb 16 2005, 02:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 01:45 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
Why would you piss anyone off Sweets? It's understandable. :)

I've dated women who said the same thing. I guess I'm just too good to pass up.

Or rather, they really wanted that house.
Tony's wives were Excellent housekeepers!!!!


They always kept the house :)

Women find me irristable to...I think its my fashion sense :)

http://www.whitcon.net/JON1.jpg [/b][/quote]
OMFG

The burn was really good about my ex's always keeping the house, which is true...

That picture though.

What's scary, is I've seen you in even worse, with baseball bat in hand slamming doors in ppl's faces. LMFAO

[Anthony]

Oh, if you decide to take it down, I saved the pick for posterity.

[grimm]

Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
i have a friend who refers to kids as "trophies"

hell go out with a girl, call me up and tell me about the date, and then end it with, not going to call her again, too many trophy's on the mantle.. lol

[Nickatilynx]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 16 2005, 02:21 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 16 2005, 02:21 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Nickatilynx@Feb 16 2005, 02:08 PM
Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 01:45 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
Why would you piss anyone off Sweets? It's understandable. :)

I've dated women who said the same thing. I guess I'm just too good to pass up.

Or rather, they really wanted that house.
Tony's wives were Excellent housekeepers!!!!


They always kept the house :)

Women find me irristable to...I think its my fashion sense :)

http://www.whitcon.net/JON1.jpg
OMFG

The burn was really good about my ex's always keeping the house, which is true...

That picture though.

What's scary, is I've seen you in even worse, with baseball bat in hand slamming doors in ppl's faces. LMFAO [/b][/quote]
ahahahahaha oh...yeah....

Do you still have the pics from that evening? LOL

[Lisa]

Bill refers to them as 'fuck trophies'.

[grimm]

Originally posted by Nickatilynx+Feb 16 2005, 02:13 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Nickatilynx @ Feb 16 2005, 02:13 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 02:12 PM
O...M...G... :P
What!!!!!!

Everyone will be dressing like that in 2006 :) [/b][/quote]
its the new black

[grimm]

Originally posted by Lisa@Feb 16 2005, 02:25 PM
Bill refers to them as 'fuck trophies'.
get ..out ..of..my head. GET OUT:)

[grimm]

Originally posted by Anthony+Feb 16 2005, 12:28 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Anthony @ Feb 16 2005, 12:28 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-*KK*@Feb 16 2005, 12:21 PM
Get a puppy.
All joking aside, time spent with my kids are time precious.

I don't get to see them much, so they get spoiled, to a limit of course.

Using them for my dating purposes is the furthest from my mind. [/b][/quote]
anthony.. twins that are at least part asian are teh stuff of commercials man! use the power:)

[Lisa]

Originally posted by grimm@Feb 17 2005, 08:26 AM
get ..out ..of..my head. GET OUT:)
Aww but it's so spacious and airy in there. :nyanya:

[Peaches]

Originally posted by Lisa@Feb 16 2005, 06:25 PM
Bill refers to them as 'fuck trophies'.
I was getting ready to use that term :P

I dated a guy who was very anti-child and was a member of a message board I called the Militant Child Haters. Cunt Nuggets was another of their catch phrases :)

[Vick]

Originally posted by Nickatilynx@Feb 16 2005, 05:08 PM
http://www.whitcon.net/JON1.jpg
Me love you long time

[Lisa]

Well shit! Peaches said the ocean word! :(

[Anthony]

Originally posted by Nickatilynx+Feb 16 2005, 02:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Nickatilynx @ Feb 16 2005, 02:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 02:21 PM
Originally posted by Nickatilynx@Feb 16 2005, 02:08 PM
Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 01:45 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-Peaches@Feb 16 2005, 01:28 PM
I'm going to piss off the single fathers here, but.....I make sure never to get involved with a man who has kids he doesn't have full custody of. I tried a few times, but it just gets WAY over complicated and I have enough complication on my own, thankyouverymuch. Unfortunately, IMO, that elimimated all men that I met with kids.

And I know for a fact there are many men who would never ask me out because I had a kid, and I understood that completely, so I don't think I'm being hypocritical :awinky:

I've gone out with men with adult kids and it's been fine, but while they're growing up....no.
Why would you piss anyone off Sweets? It's understandable. :)

I've dated women who said the same thing. I guess I'm just too good to pass up.

Or rather, they really wanted that house.
Tony's wives were Excellent housekeepers!!!!


They always kept the house :)

Women find me irristable to...I think its my fashion sense :)

http://www.whitcon.net/JON1.jpg
OMFG

The burn was really good about my ex's always keeping the house, which is true...

That picture though.

What's scary, is I've seen you in even worse, with baseball bat in hand slamming doors in ppl's faces. LMFAO
ahahahahaha oh...yeah....

Do you still have the pics from that evening? LOL [/b][/quote]
I don't, the Ex has it.

But the memories will live on forever!

Which reminds me, I have to see my therapist.

[Anthony]

Originally posted by grimm+Feb 16 2005, 02:28 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (grimm @ Feb 16 2005, 02:28 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 16 2005, 12:28 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-*KK*@Feb 16 2005, 12:21 PM
Get a puppy.
All joking aside, time spent with my kids are time precious.

I don't get to see them much, so they get spoiled, to a limit of course.

Using them for my dating purposes is the furthest from my mind.
anthony.. twins that are at least part asian are teh stuff of commercials man! use the power:) [/b][/quote]
LOL, I am mercenary Bro.

If the situation presents itself...

[grimm]

Originally posted by Lisa@Feb 16 2005, 02:39 PM
Well shit! Peaches said the ocean word! :(
C You Next Tuesday!

[grimm]

Originally posted by Lisa+Feb 16 2005, 02:34 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Lisa @ Feb 16 2005, 02:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-grimm@Feb 17 2005, 08:26 AM
get ..out ..of..my head. GET OUT:)
Aww but it's so spacious and airy in there. :nyanya: [/b][/quote]
its actually rather soft and comfortable, like a big spongy bed:)

[Peaches]

Originally posted by Lisa@Feb 16 2005, 06:39 PM
Well shit! Peaches said the ocean word! :(
Well, I actually typed it :nyanya:

But I was repeating a phrase so I get a free pass, right?

[Lisa]

Yeh Peaches, I guess quoting someone doesn't count. :)

Somehow Grimm...that isn't tempting me to lie down and get cosy. :)

[Anthony]

Just an update.

My bitterness has all but disappeared.

I actually met a really nice girl last night!