Dating a woman: Substance or sex appeal?

[pushpills]

Since my last thread didn't get the worthwhile responses i'd hoped for, I'll go ahead and make this a poll.

The reason being I am now about to date a girl based almost exclusively on her substance and not looks.





So.....what's your thoughts?

[pushpills]

fuck i screwed up the I think fourth one, shoulda been 80/20 the other way toward the bottom, any mod who would like to edit feel free :)

[pushpills]

lol, the poll was modified but not the way i expected :rolleyes:

[Amberlita]

Pushpills, although I think it's cool that you're dating someone completely on substance...I'm curious about what attracted you to her in the first place?

[pushpills]

Originally posted by Amberlita@Apr 24 2004, 05:35 AM
Pushpills, although I think it's cool that you're dating someone completely on substance...I'm curious about what attracted you to her in the first place?
interesting, easy to talk to, and a film major! (not interested in her ability to film porno....film is a subject that interests me alot)

alot of fun stuff to do in the city with a person who's also interested in it (like art and whatnot other girls with rocks in their heads wouldnt be interested in)

[TheEnforcer]

Hey.. glad to hear you have a new found respect for substance!! :okthumb:

[Vick]

Scratching head

What's the problem or challenge with a woman of substance having sex appeal

or


A woman with sex appeal being of substance


In fact I feel and find the 2 often go together, a beautiful, well spoken, intriguing, educated woman - what more can you ask for

Where's is this whole thing coming from Sex Appeal, Style and "Substance" all come together and are part of the package

I could name quite a few female posters to this board that bring together and exude Sex Appeal, Style and Substance (intellect)

[TheEnforcer]

Well of course you could Vick and on Oprano that is more the norm than the exception but you could just as easily point out a gazillion bimbos in this business as well.

[Vick]

Well, I guess my point is .....

Why choose one over the other when you can have both?

Why settle for just one when both are available?

and doesn't a women just by virtue of having intelligence or "substance" then have sex appeal

Politicians are the exception proving the rule he he he

Looking at my calendar ... I see no time allotted for bimbos

[Meni]

I picked all looks
cuz a date to me
is 'come over'
hee hee

[pushpills]

Originally posted by Meni@Apr 24 2004, 05:31 PM
I picked all looks
cuz a date to me
is 'come over'
hee hee
so you've never dated a man that wasn't good looking?

[Sabby]

Grogan sweetie,

If all you talk about is your car and your money (thats usually all you talk about here - so I'm sure you do) then thats all she is going to care about...

Also.. A girl is only going to act the way you treat her. If you treat her like a bimbo then she is just going to act like a bimbo.

Women are social Chameleons... they can usually adapt alot better than men can. So I think its up to you to stop being a self-centered little dweeb first.

No matter what a girl looks like she is only going to give you substance if you are substance yourself.


Sabby:)

[TheEnforcer]

Originally posted by Sabby@Apr 24 2004, 08:24 PM
Grogan sweetie,

If all you talk about is your car and your money (thats usually all you talk about here - so I'm sure you do) then thats all she is going to care about...

Also.. A girl is only going to act the way you treat her. If you treat her like a bimbo then she is just going to act like a bimbo.

Women are social Chameleons... they can usually adapt alot better than men can. So I think its up to you to stop being a self-centered little dweeb first.

No matter what a girl looks like she is only going to give you substance if you are substance yourself.


Sabby:)
:rokk: :wnw:

[Robert]

Originally posted by Sabby@Apr 24 2004, 08:24 PM
... I think its up to you to stop being a self-centered little dweeb first.

Sabby:)

LOL!!

[pushpills]

Originally posted by Sabby@Apr 24 2004, 07:24 PM
So I think its up to you to stop being a self-centered little dweeb first.

No matter what a girl looks like she is only going to give you substance if you are substance yourself.


Sabby:)
hmm i passed over these responses...



i'm a self centered dweeb on the internet.


and youre right a girl with substance wouldnt date me if i had none.

[Dravyk]

I'm all for substance abuse. :D

[Lisa]

Originally posted by pushpills+Apr 25 2004, 10:36 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (pushpills @ Apr 25 2004, 10:36 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteBegin--Meni@Apr 24 2004, 05:31 PM
I picked all looks
cuz a date to me
is 'come over'
hee hee
so you've never dated a man that wasn't good looking?[/b][/quote]
I'm still chuckling over the idea of "god's gift to women Meni" dating guys. :D

[pushpills]

Originally posted by Lisa+Apr 28 2004, 04:12 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Lisa @ Apr 28 2004, 04:12 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>Originally posted by -pushpills@Apr 25 2004, 10:36 AM
<!--QuoteBegin--Meni@Apr 24 2004, 05:31 PM
I picked all looks
cuz a date to me
is 'come over'
hee hee
so you've never dated a man that wasn't good looking?
I'm still chuckling over the idea of "god's gift to women Meni" dating guys. :D[/b][/quote]
meni is gods gift to women? how can there be two? if so god is generous.